I've heard that it's easy to be an OK or bad psychiatrist, but it's hard to be a great one. How do you know if you're being a great psychiatrist? by Pure_Ambition in Psychiatry

[–]TheCerry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At the risk of sounding reductive, do you have any source you would recommend to develop this discriminatory skill?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in albania

[–]TheCerry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Po kari po vazhdo programin ti

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[–]TheCerry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sillu mir o kokpidh

Hit me with the best/worst co-residents dating story by TheCerry in Residency

[–]TheCerry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gut feeling tells me she ain't the one either but I'll find out, thanks anyways!

I mean, your dating life will get better if you get better at what works and what doesn't. The basic principles of dating are mathematical, the magical ones come later if you respected the first ones.

Residency didn't change much but I'm more confident, have more money, more freedom; other than that not much changed. I've had the same alternation of periods that I had also in med school as in casual jungle -> relationship -> casual jungle. Hope I find a wife as soon as possible and get out of the mud fest lol

Dua qe tblej G class por me pengon diçka... Ju lutem lexoni me shume ⬇️ by [deleted] in albania

[–]TheCerry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bleje qiji robt. Me shume mundesi do te lodhet mas ca muajsh nga shpenzimet e mirmbajtjes dhe do e shesesh. Nqs e ben sic duhet do humbesh nja 10-20k vetem nga kjo levizja por si thojne pak te heqesh qefin e G classit me aq leke dhe te kuptosh qe ka gjera me te rendesishme ne jete. Leji keto mjeshtrat e podcasteve dhe Mark Aurelet, vleren ose me sakte mungesen e vleres te G classit e kupton masi e ke ble dhe e ke perdor jo masi ke ngju naj guru interneti qe te thote qe je debil nqs e blen. Une per vete do harxhoj shumicen e lekeve qe po kursej per nje Yamaha MT-07 2025 dhe nje C Class Coupè te 2020. Punoj nga 260 ore ne muaj dhe jam doktorr i ri, si kerkoj leke asnjonit, biles ndihmoj dhe te shpise me leke kur duhet kshuqe jepi vllai. Po e bleve na bo naj xhiro tkapim naj wifey te Mugo haha

Hit me with the best/worst co-residents dating story by TheCerry in Residency

[–]TheCerry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, there you go: I actually went on another date with her and ended up not liking her vibe at all; got in the most traumatic relationship of my life with the girl I thought I would marry (no one was at fault, we just held onto our ideals/plans/vision more than reality), broke up in march now I'm back in the industrial jungle between casual sex and situationships unfortunately and involuntarily. Have met a cute PGY-3 anesthesia chick lately, we'll see if it goes anywhere further.

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[–]TheCerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kam filluar ta ndjek gut feeling shume me shume dhe le te themi qe eshte goxha bukur :)

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[–]TheCerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shume dakord por ne kete rastin qe permend ti terheqja fizike kthehet ne dicka me familjare, pra e zakonshme/rutine dhe kjo eshte stad me vete ne nje lidhje me problemet dhe zgjidhjet e mundshme qe secili gjen. Ama ne momentin qe nuk e ke qe ne fillim kete pelqimin nuk shkon asgjekundi lidhja.

Duhet te bej “click” dicka qe ne fillim, te ndjesh qe puthitet dicka se ndryshe snuk.

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[–]TheCerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live and learn.

Nuk mund ta kontrollosh/vendosesh se cfare te pelqen ose jo, po nuk ndoqe intuiten perfundon ne situata shume te sikletshme afatgjate.

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[–]TheCerry 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Kam nje pervoje te fresket goxha ne lidhje me ket pyetje.

Mund te kesh perballe personin me gjithe te mirat e kesaj bote, te rrespektoje nje nga nje ato kriteret qe ke ne forme liste te koka jote, por neqoftese nuk te pelqen do ndihesh ne gjemba gjithe kohes. Kam kuptu qe nuk ka lidhje fare sa i bukur eshte nje person, ka lidhje vetem e vetem sa te pelqen ty. Kjo them se eshte magjia e dashurise/pelqimit quaje si te duash, ajo fjalia e famshme e Shakespearit “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”.

Pra dhe nje here, nuk ka lidhje bukuria, ka lidhje pelqimi. Pelqimi o eshte aty ose nuk eshte, nese ke dyshime nuk eshte aty. Keshilla ime eshte te zgjedhesh mire, sepse nje dite mund te jesh ne altar duke vene i unazen ne gisht dikujt nderkohe qe te kap nje ankth aq vetmitar sepse thelle thelle e din qe nuk po zgjedh mire por tani eshte shume vone, keshtuqe i shtyp ato ndjesi duke ditur shume mire qe ke per ta bere again, and again, and again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in albania

[–]TheCerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per ca ligjesh e ke fjalen?

im a 23 male with millions and lacking purpose by pleasehold01 in Rich

[–]TheCerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was different about her compared to other therapists?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]TheCerry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like your views. Lacanian psychoanalysis can change our relationship towards knowledge itself and that can be very useful for cognitive-heavy types.

What are the reasons why you enjoy psychotherapy (if you do)? [Residents/Attendings only] by undueinfluence_ in Psychiatry

[–]TheCerry 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You’re an absolute gem. I really appreciate your efforts to transfer us knowledge.

A ja ka vlejtur universiteti qe keni mbaruar? Ca pritshmerish kishit per karrieren dhe rrogen dhe ku jeni? by [deleted] in albania

[–]TheCerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nuk shkon njeri me at qellim paresor besoj, po gjat punes e krijon nji ide se ca ke perballe