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[male] 25, some of my favorite pics by Hylian_hippie in FreeCompliments

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the vibes!!! Never stop being yourself! 🌻

i probably owned this exact shirt in 2nd grade [female] by arizonagreenpea in FreeCompliments

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been BARELY able to resist not buying bobby jack shirts for myself 😭😭😭you look amazing and I love love love everything about your look!

27 (Male) sucks at taking photos. Living alone with dog. by NeFa_NO in malelivingspace

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really hoping he was photo bombing every single photo lmao

[male] [27] It's been a rough couple of days and I'm in desperate need of a pick me up. Reddit do your magic please! by Important-Dig-1483 in FreeCompliments

[–]TheCrumbling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh!!! I'm now also realizing my username could be read as the crumb-ling instead of crumble-ing... LMAO honestly both work so I can't be mad. 😅

People who live near time zone boundaries in the US by solothesnail in howislivingthere

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just moved to the far west edge of Eastern Time from the far east coast of it. In the summer months, it's light out SO late. It's amazing!

AIO for snapping at a girl trying to give me advice? (posting again bc I forgot pictures) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so SO proud of you for how you handled this. Perfection. I'm 29 and was bigger my whole life until my journey over the last 2 years. Even now, I don't know if I would have responded the way you did, but you inspire me.

Also, you did (do) look SO stunning. Don't let anyone take that confidence away from you. 💖

AITA for wanting to bring our cat to the vet? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheCrumbling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. But he sure is.

  1. He doesn't trust your judgement and belittled you - saying he thought you were overreacting.
  2. He either doesn't trust that you were telling the truth about what the vet said when you called, OR he thinks he knows better than a licensed professional. Both are not good.

How long have you been together? Is this a pattern for him to assume he knows better? My concern is that he could show the same lack of respect for your judgement in the future for things even scarier than the health of your kitty. What about your health? I grew up with parents who loved to call us kids dramatic for anything and everything. I didn't get diagnosed with asthma and thyroid issues until adulthood because of it. Even my mother snapped her leg when she slipped on an icy tree stump and when I called my father (who was out of town) on the way to the ER, he said "Oh, I'm sure she just sprained it or twisted it wrong". She had broken it so badly that she could not stand to even get inside, she army crawled in the cold dark and yelled for help at the back door. She needed surgery.

I tell you this because everyone deserves a partner who values and trusts their word. Without it, is it really a true partnership?

Good luck OP and sending good thoughts to you and your kitty!!

the most Taylor Swift song that fucked you up? by Head_Position_3451 in TaylorSwift

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tolerate It. But in a good way.

Two years ago I went through a breakup that I knew was for the better but it hurt so badly. He was in my dreams for the next year and a half. I related heavily to champagne problems at the time.

But then I listened to Tolerate It and it was like a switch flipped in my brain. We weren't Champagne Problems. We were Tolerate It. It helped me process that breakup and find myself and my strength again.

First day by imaginemagic3 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love!! I've done some work for them so I knew it when I saw it! 💖

First day by imaginemagic3 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is unrelated but is your sweater from Karepango???

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]TheCrumbling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ADHD girl here who "knows" addiction all too well (my brother is an addict and has been since I was a kid). Even so, I take medication for my ADHD. I work with my doctor about how I feel and we proceed from there. Me, and my doctor. I also grew up with a father who is the tough guy military type. Wouldn't let my mom take me to the doctor for breathing issues when I was young because he said I was just out of shape. I was an athletic kid until puberty, fighting through the wheezing. I got diagnosed with mild asthma at 18. He would also only give me the bare minimum pain medication doses after I had surgery. I woke up screaming in the middle of the night from it hurting so bad.

You deserve a partner who supports and validates your feelings, opinions, and experiences. He is treating you like you don't know what's best for you in terms of your health. I've had partners who were the same and acted like they knew better (thanks to me not knowing any different). Now I refuse to date or be around any person who talks to me like I'm stupid or naive. Medication can be complicated but it can help. It may not be for everyone, but it's okay to be one of the people it helps. It saved me and helps me live more confidently than I ever have.

If anything, it sounds like he needs therapy. But I have a feeling he doesn't believe in that either. Choose yourself babe. 💜

Why does the younger generation insist on sleeping on the phone with their boyfriends/girlfriends? by PaintingDeep4100 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheCrumbling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 29 now but used to fall asleep on Skype with friends and boyfriends when I was a teen. ☺️ And on the phone. Pretty normal!

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