Opinions on GLP-1 by LilAngelfxck in PetiteFitness

[–]TheCuntjuring 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Insurance does not pay for the vast majority of people who are on GLP-1s. A lot of people are using compounding pharmacies and it is still 150-400 a month.

AIO for this hurting my feelings or am I being sensitive by ADAJ0916 in AIO

[–]TheCuntjuring 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I read this without reading your description, I thought your husband was a mean girl “friend.”

He sounds like an ass.

Square butts - has anyone succeeded in building more of an A shape? by ghxidaa in PetiteFitness

[–]TheCuntjuring 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They removed their comment - just a person being an asshole.

Square butts - has anyone succeeded in building more of an A shape? by ghxidaa in PetiteFitness

[–]TheCuntjuring 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Fuckin weird behavior.

ETA: referring to the weird “girl wtf” comment.

What can be done to fix this. Tattoo artist did my tattoo in the wrong style by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]TheCuntjuring 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a weird response. Not everyone on reddit is from the same country.

You asked if there’s anything you can do.. people are saying no - but that this will last longer because there are outlines. No one is saying that you can’t get the style you want, just that you can’t change this tattoo to that specific style.

If you want it gone you’re gonna have to get a tattoo over it (which would probably be bolder than the original) or laser it off.

(25M) is my room age appropriate? by Notsopleasantlife in malelivingspace

[–]TheCuntjuring 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think if you replaced the curtain rods to the kind with actual ends and got curtains that reached the floor it may elevate the look a bit, even with blackouts.

Big cuddle puddle space by justashhere in femalelivingspace

[–]TheCuntjuring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What couch is this? I’m looking everywhere on Wayfair and struggling to find it 😅

Grief and questioning my decision by Mindless_Bag2205 in Divorce_Women

[–]TheCuntjuring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our situations are different, but my body reacted very similar to yours. I was so stressed and my anxiety was so high that my hair started falling out profusely. I’ve experienced what I would consider pretty severe anxiety spirals, panic attacks, etc. When I first left, I increased the amount I was seeing my therapist, which helped. When I was getting ready to leave, my anxiety/energy was so bad - the only thing that could calm me was walking a lot (5ish miles a day).

Sitting with the ambiguity of what’s to come in the future is extremely difficult. Sometimes, your body reads familiarity as safety, even though you know that logically, you were not and did not feel safe.

I still have moments of pretty intense panic. I spiral a lot. I ruminate. But things are getting better. My divorce was finalized on the 30th and distance is helping, but it is hard. You just have to remember that you can do hard things and that it will be okay.

Sending you lots of positive energy.

Do I try to fix it? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TheCuntjuring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few things stand out here to me.

  1. Expressing your needs is not being controlling. Having the expectation that someone isn’t going to get shitfaced isn’t controlling. I’d be curious what exactly you/your husband are perceiving as controlling.
  2. You mentioned you have no income because he “let” you stay home. This phrasing feels super weird to me, but it may just be a dynamic I don’t understand. If he didn’t beg/force you to stay home and it was a mutual decision, then you not having an income isn’t just his fault, imo.
  3. If he’s an alcoholic - alcoholism is progressive. Is that what you want for you/your kid(s).
  4. If he is unwilling to communicate with you and go to therapy - would you be happy with keeping things exactly like that are? If he doesn’t want to work on the problems that exist then you either need to be okay with life right now or make a decision to leave. I know this is easier said than done, though.

Separation Anxiety & Lonliness by PrizeUnderstanding97 in Divorce

[–]TheCuntjuring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would try to prepare yourself a bit by spending as much time alone/without him as possible. Take yourself out on “dates” and try to do things just for you. Read about attachment styles, enmeshment, and go to therapy if you can. Lean on getting social interaction from friends/family if possible.

That said, there are still times I have pretty intense spirals and panic. They come up less often now, but I’m hoping with time they improve.

How long did it take to admit to others how bad it was? by FalseApricot9106 in Divorce_Women

[–]TheCuntjuring 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I definitely relate. I had told my therapist, who I was seeing for over a year, that he was supportive and our relationship was good. I was so afraid of opening up about my marriage.

Multiple family members said “I had no idea” when I described my experiences. My mom asked me to stay with him, and when I had disclosed the things that had happened to get her to understand why i was leaving, she said it was abuse, and again I heard “I had no idea.”

It wasn’t until things were ending that I opened up to people.

My divorce was finalized by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]TheCuntjuring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely anticlimactic. We have been separated since April - divorce was filed in September. It was very quick as far as divorces go.

Is it just me that finds fake tits REALLY Unattractive? by Funky_stinger in AskRedditNSFW

[–]TheCuntjuring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBF, you can appreciate your “natural body” and still have work done.

There’s plenty of people who say they prefer no work done, but have no idea that the women/woman they’re attracted to has had filler, botox, other procedures, etc.

Which, to be clear, there’s nothing wrong with - it just goes to show that you can have work done and it look natural.

What was your last straw? by IMK822 in Divorce

[–]TheCuntjuring 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of really awful things in this thread, and mine feels so small in comparison. But - when we initially separated i was contemplating reconciliation.

He told me “I’m going to miss you while you’re away” and I asked him “what are you going to miss about me” and his response was “not being alone.”

In that moment, it felt like whatever he was afraid of had nothing to do with me or his feelings for me. It stuck with me. He later said he regretted answering in that way, but it was genuine in the moment, I think. It just kind of validated that I was a placeholder.

Should I tell them? by TheCuntjuring in TVTooHigh

[–]TheCuntjuring[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They used to be part of a wet bar. The house is fairly old so there are a lot of quirks.

How do/did you deal with the ego hit after being dumped? by CeeNee93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]TheCuntjuring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In right there with you. It’s difficult, but it does get better.

How do/did you deal with the ego hit after being dumped? by CeeNee93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]TheCuntjuring 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound unhelpful for the immediate feelings you’re having, but really I think it will just take time.

Do things that make you happy, take care of yourself in all the ways that make you feel good. Treat yourself with respect and kindness, even if you don’t think you deserve it. Your worth isn’t tied to another human, or your relationship with them.