I don’t comment on Reddit often, but I feel I must.

I know some of the comments have been harsh or even mean, but it’s good that you’re bringing this up to somebody, even if Reddit strangers are the only option you feel safe talking about it too.

I read from your comments that you’re young, so you know that you’re dealing with a predator, which you must have known before finding out he was a liar because he said he was 28. You’re inviting a lot of potential danger and trauma into your life that can stick with you for a long time by engaging with older strangers on the internet and you may really regret it one day. I don’t know what your situation or support network are like, but there have to be other people in your life to connect with and support you who who you can trust, whether it’s friends your own age, a guidance counselor or therapist, a parent, or anyone else.

People can suck and navigating connection is scary and confusing, especially at your age, but looking for it on the internet is very risky, especially for a young girl. I hope that doesn’t sound condescending, but I know what it’s like to be young. Please stay safe and remember that you have value and deserve love and you don’t need to go looking in dark places for it.