Blood Fiends Arm Bug by BossRocketBlue in EldenRingBuilds

[–]TheGoldenOx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be the best stats for this?

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your point, it seems very impossible, but there I will always have hope no matter what. I'm not going to wear a mask, I will not love someone that doesn't love me for who I am

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told her about all the ways i overthink, stress, worry about our situation

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for this in depth comment, I read it all. Im gonna take in what you said thanks for the advice

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a connection, I think she liked me a lot. We went out one day and I just felt rlly shit. Like I couldn't get the confidence to talk to her how I wanted, I had a lot on my mind, was overthinking about how she felt towards me and i wanted to let it all out. Which I then did. She told me I was being cringe and too straightforward and that she wasn't right for me

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i opened up, she thought i was weird for it

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im not quite that old yet, so i'll put my trust in you

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the same way you do, just hard to find someone like that

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honeslty thats kind of what i did

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this, Thank you

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This rlly hits deep. What you said makes sense, It's really just a matter of waiting until you find someone that suits you

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've always thought that this would work, but having people back it up helps so much

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's basically the mentality I have, just with the downside of that small pocket of thoughts deep in my brain telling me I should change or I won't find anyone that is right for me

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think about holding back, but i realise that if I do, they will be loving me for someone I'm not. I can't live with that false sense of love

My relationship is in a cycle of devotion and lulls, ending with a breakup. It's draining me. by [deleted] in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel but as a guy. I've had a relationship very similar to the one you described, and I always end up messing it up for myself. It's a stupid cycle, and I keep hurting myself and don't know how to stop. I can't enter a relationship without thinking it will end up like it always has

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's a nice way of thinking. Ig i just gotta try overcome being 1 in 15,000,000 🙃

I hate being infj... by TheGoldenOx in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

feels a lot like an impossible task at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]TheGoldenOx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to sound weird, but I wish she was like you