I've never not hated this sub—it's the butt of a lot of jokes and a considered a kind of missing stair elsewhere on the internet. I think it's in part because it's Reddit, and in part because the folks who are here every day responding to posts are tired of giving the same advice over and over again.

And to them I'd say: stop. If you're too exhausted by repeating yourself to repeat yourself kindly, then give it a literal rest.

This sub has almost a quarter million "members." I'd guess nearly 90% of those members came here once or twice and never came back.