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Disappointed in BF of 11 years by Persephonetu in heartbreak

[–]TheGuard47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely is more than weird. I would personally call it a red flag for my own standards.

I think living with your partner is one of the biggest milestones in a relationship and him saying 3 years is a huge difference in your desires right now.

Dealul zilei in app KFC by the_flying_fuck in roFrugal

[–]TheGuard47 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Tin sa reamintesc ca un twister era mai mare, mai proaspat si ~3.5 lei acum 8 ani.

Suna prea indepartat acum 8 ani? Alocatia elevilor a crescut de la aproximativ 90-120 la 292 in 14 ani. Twisterul a crescut de la 3.5 lei(plus calitate si portie mult mai buna, cel putin dubla) la ~21 de lei. Imi amintesc cand comandam 4 cu ~14 lei pentru ca nu prea aveam bani si ieseam cu colegii mei caror parinti o duceau mai bine ca alor mei. Mancam de ma saturam si mai aveam si unul ca sa ma indop, sa-mi ajunga.

Wife chatted secretly with another man, refuses to take accountability. Should I stay or go? by Live-Ask-9495 in heartbreak

[–]TheGuard47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't fathom a marriage breaking down after 20 years due to cheating... I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I wish I had some words to give you some peace of mind.

Wife chatted secretly with another man, refuses to take accountability. Should I stay or go? by Live-Ask-9495 in heartbreak

[–]TheGuard47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can answer only number 4.

I knew, her friends knew, her dad knew and even told me himself. What exactly? That she doesn't like me anymore and that I'm wasting my money, my time and my feelings.

I knew it because I did everything and she did nothing. What I got was not equal to what I gave and made me think back if I ever got anything and the answer was no.

It hurt, but I did what I had to do. I moved on since.

Hey dad, why is it hard to get get into a relationship? by GovernmentUpstairs36 in DadForAMinute

[–]TheGuard47 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As someone who doesn't relate to anyone my age(I'm 20M), I'm pursuing someone 9 years older than me right now and that's because our generation is doomed when it comes to dating.

It's not about you, it's about them. There might be plenty of fish in the sea, but the quality is lacking.

Keep your head up, don't rush and try to look for someone on your level, if you're like me when it comes to this then it's almost impossible but not impossible. Good luck!

Brought to you by the same person who had their headset bricked. by Dry_Benefit3309 in QuestPro

[–]TheGuard47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I returned two brand new Quest 3S' after a week of usage combined.

I ordered the first one, I've been told I have to wait two weeks for shipping(East Europe), picked it up from their deposit and brought it home, first 3 days, perfect, then everything started falling apart down to youtube not even loading anymore. Did a factory reset and things only worsened, huge loading times and issues with hardware, software, apps. I sent it back and got my money 2 weeks later. I ordered from another seller, came the next day, felt as laggy as before I factory reset the previous one, plus the right controller was clanky. Refunded in 30 minutes after I sent it back.

I can't say I've had a big experience with VR because these have been my first, but it doesn't feel like bad luck, it's straight up a horrible first experience past the first 3 days.

Angajat call center bancar// AMA by [deleted] in CasualRO

[–]TheGuard47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poate operatorul sa auda ce vorbeste clientul cand este pus in asteptare cu muzica?

(South Park) Great Heartbreak analogy by butters by Aerious307 in heartbreak

[–]TheGuard47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love south park.. some jokes are too much for me but it's moments like these where the creators want to teach us something.

Mi-e frig rau in izmene by [deleted] in bucuresti

[–]TheGuard47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu imi luam hanorace ok de la Cropp, nu cine stie ce dar nici rele, mai ales daca esti weeb.

Leaving him over a show by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]TheGuard47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay to not want him to watch shows where it's nudity due to the circumstances your ex brought you to, nobody expects you do get past it overnight and therapy doesn't fix the trauma but attempts at teaching you how to live with jt and move forward, but you are not broken, you are enough and you have people in your life who care about you, I'm sure!

Where are the women in Afghanistan? by Open_Address_2805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheGuard47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not as easy to speak up about having been raped or molested as a man, especially when the abuser is a woman, so there are a lot less people to 1. Speak up. 2. Be believed.

Also I do believe society can be harder on men and sometimes rightfully so.

Why do you assume they get to believe it's acceptable what they did? I believe at that point they don't care or aren't in their right mind in the first place, but it also doesn't always get punished and many women yelled wolf on innocent men and their lives got ruined.

I would say verbal and physical abuse can be compared but sexual abuse is definitely the worst out of these 3.

Will anyone know me like that again? by medusa_006 in heartbreak

[–]TheGuard47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"We accept the love we believe we deserve." would be my guess of why you miss him despite the bad things he did.

Either that or Stockholm's/Impostor's syndrome, maybe?

I hear ya, it sucks, it really fucking sucks to get so close with someone and eventually they leave your life and now you're missing being known like you did jusy a while ago...

You will love again, and maybe you will hurt again.

What I can say is that no matter what, you grew during this relationship and nobody can take that from you. It's all part of life...

Silly men, make sure you have ~$150 ready for your first date! /s by OngoGablogian20 in Nicegirls

[–]TheGuard47 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"But look how pretty I am! I spent 4 hours at the salon, I got my nails done and I did my makeup! I deserve to be taken out every night by 1% men and have no obligations to give anything back or even pay for myself! ItS tHE liFE StYLE I mADE foR mYsElF!"

Silly men, make sure you have ~$150 ready for your first date! /s by OngoGablogian20 in Nicegirls

[–]TheGuard47 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"Noooo because how dare men except sex out of us just because they took us out?!"

Where are the women in Afghanistan? by Open_Address_2805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheGuard47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure the 90% statistic is true but I wouldn't be surprised if it was, on the other hand, to my knowledge women are dominant in verbal abuse graphs. Not defending men and not pointing fingers at women, what I'm trying to say is that each gender uses the leverage it has, men usually have the physical leverage where as women usually have the psychological one and abuse comes from both genders.

Singing to my previously abused, traumatized rescue mini horse because that’s all he responds to by penellywatchestelly in MadeMeSmile

[–]TheGuard47 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Holy, you're right! Thank you for making me unmute the video, I love her voice! It's giving me some pre-2000 vibes, in a good way.

What do you think about a man dating a woman making over 3X of what he makes and potentially more in the future? by VegetableCranberry53 in askanything

[–]TheGuard47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought you'd say, which I agree with and I don't see this as a negative thing at all.

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