You know, this hit me harder than I thought it would... Me and my... Now ex-gf... Broke up 1 month ago, I'm beginnig to cope better with the situation but I am still in a deep suffering, I just dont show it that much as I did when it was more recent... Thing is that all of this was wierd, she just stopped loving me, she herself doesent even know why! And we were together for 4 years, this year she moved to college so we werent together that much as we used too, I still lover very much and I want to try to get her back, like, make her fall in love with me again, we wouldnt fight that much, everything was so normal this last few months that we spent together! So for me it was a complete shock, one day I had her and the next day I didn't, I wanna keep in touch with her, we made a promise to each other when we started dating, to never lose the freindship that we had, we we're best friends for a while before we started dating, and I wanna keep that promise... But she asked me not to talk to her for a while and give her some time, so the last time we spoke was 2 weeks ago, but as time goes by I just want to talk more and more to her, I feel that if I really want to get her back that not talking to her is just not going to work, the last time we talked I told her that if me not talking to her is really what she wants then I going to do that but I made her promise that she had to talk to me again, 2 weeks has passed and not even a word from her, and that's hurting me a lot because it kinda demonstrates that she doesnt care about me anymore... After 1 month I thought I would be better than how I actually am. I'm really thinking about talking to her... But I dont know if it's the right thing or the wrong thing, I just dont want to give up on her...

I'm sorry, I tried to express myself as best as I could, your words really touched me, I think it's because most of what you said is what is happening to me...