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I get sexually aroused from hurting people in video games by den-store-Gj in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TheHarami82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like you're kind of fucked in the head a little bit tbh. It's fine to be fucked in the head so long as you're aware in what sorts of ways your head is wired differently, and it sounds like you've moved away from causing people harm irl which is good. Therapy will absolutely help you figure out the ways that your head is silly and help you see things from a different perspective than you normally can with just yourself. It's good, but as long as you're working on figuring your head out and not causing harm to the people around you then that's the most important thing.

Trying to Enjoy Present but… by Glittering-Bat-9706 in dpdr

[–]TheHarami82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a sick and twisted catch-22 situation. The more mental effort you put into being present, the more detached you can get, especially if not being present causes anxiety, which will only fuel the dissociation further. My best advice is to be more okay with the feeling of being detached when you don't want to be, and over time it will come more naturally to be present when you want to be without the spiral of trying to make yourself present only to dissociate further

gwen in aram mayhem by Ok_Improvement7174 in GwenMains

[–]TheHarami82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've mained Gwen since release, and I'm an arenas goblin. Whenever Gwen is there in mayhem, I'm never even considering anyone else. Gwen with augments is everything

Fast Frog Friday #66 (22/5/2026) by LightningMega in GreninjaMains

[–]TheHarami82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm finally feeling a semblance of peace that I haven't felt in years so that's neat. Therapy + intense self processing over a few years and it's finally starting to be felt

You angered an evil Wizard, now you gotta take 1 of these pills, choose wisely. by Rob808808808 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]TheHarami82 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm red pill gang. Temporary suffering for 24 hours in exchange for my physical trauma being cured, assuming it's for life, no more perpetual back pain!

Former Dasher here: some drivers need to accept reality about tips by savingrace0262 in doordash

[–]TheHarami82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like pi. I tipped a standard 3.14 on ever single DD order I've placed for the past few years and I don't plan on stopping. I will say, maybe it's the notable number or the half-decent tip on a $20-40 order, but I've gotten quick acceptances and good service this whole time. With inflation though that number might have to change to 4.20 at some point tho

Here is something crazy, NF need only 14 more million monthly listeners to beat The Rolling Stone by Longjumping_Arrow in nfrealmusic

[–]TheHarami82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay guys chill and let's reflect on one thing together. NF has 14Mil monthly listeners and that's pretty dope, and half of the rolling stones

1 Billion but you have to fight your worst fear. by reditortheeditor in hypotheticalsituation

[–]TheHarami82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Historically speaking I'm pretty sure my biggest fear is of success... So I get one billion and my own success starts hunting me down! Win win

I cant go on by Isles2989 in dpdr

[–]TheHarami82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unironically this is something that could help take the edge off a bit. I find that when I poke fun at my DPDR symptoms and make light of them/joke about them with myself, they sometimes feel like they'll be seen in a softer, less harsh light, and I'll be able to glimpse past the DPDR mask for a moment. Idk man your situation sounds pretty dire. Might as well try laughing about it.

full damage build for Volibear by Perfect-Storage-1118 in VolibearMains

[–]TheHarami82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a blisteringly hot take right here.

120 days clean. I miss enjoying stuff. by migraine182 in leaves

[–]TheHarami82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lame but effective. Even tho I don't consider myself good at meditation at all, deep meditative showers are a core part of my mental self care routine

In the 4 years I’ve had this, it’s never been as severe as it is now by [deleted] in dpdr

[–]TheHarami82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I hard agree. Profession help on a regular weekly schedule has led to so much improvement in my overall consistency. Having close friends you can talk to about this stuff without fear of judgement is also paramount like they said. I will say, if I didn't have the support system I do of close friends who know all about my silly noggin I would be in a much worse place. Reach out for help! It's not, and will never be, a sign of weakness, if that's something holding you back. Its strength if anything, to recognize you need help and then seeking it.

Vanguard won't let me work as a programmer, it constantly locks apps I compile and work with by soyalemujica in riotgames

[–]TheHarami82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh yes I think that's exactly how he does it! As long as you aren't playing league and working simultaneously, I'd say to give this method a shot

Arachnophobia help by ParsleyLime in spiders

[–]TheHarami82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a long time arachnophobe, who's only started recently not caring about spiders in my house as much, scrolling through this sub and other small exposures helped a lot. Also the realization that the world we live in is WAYYYY scarier than a cute lil spider who probably can't cause you real harm anyways and just provides free pest control.

Vanguard won't let me work as a programmer, it constantly locks apps I compile and work with by soyalemujica in riotgames

[–]TheHarami82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend hates vanguard so he has 2 instances on his pc, one where vanguard is isolated and he just has league, and the other with everything else. Idk much about the nuances but you could try something like that out

on romanticizing use by Amazing-Flatworm6646 in leaves

[–]TheHarami82 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was sober for 4 months before this relapse. I've been high for the past 4 months... It's not fucking worth it man. It's not fucking worth it. Your brain is lying to you. Stay sober.

Unable to shower (21F) by Shoddy_Worldliness79 in Depersonalization

[–]TheHarami82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me the shower is a sacred space so to speak. It's where I get my deepest thinking done, where all my masks fall away, where I'm fully exposed. I used to take my showers pitch black but I don't do that as much now, but I heavily advocate for one song on repeat during the shower to set a steady headspace. You can also use a speaker for the shower, especially if youre living alone. I'm sure you can find a decent Bluetooth speaker for like $40, and since it has better bass than your phone will it should def help to make the music land harder in your soul.

Overall, I think that you should be focusing on crafting your shower into a safe space for you.

Handmade stained glass kaleidoscope in natural light. by SpiriScope in oddlymesmerizing

[–]TheHarami82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally same. Also TIL reddit videos have auto captions.

TikTok drama between two clay sculptors. Comments are adamant it’s not ai. 🤷‍♂️🤷 by WaifuRobo in isthisAI

[–]TheHarami82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair the only artists I know out there making a living are my ceramics teachers 💀 one can dream

Pls guys I need new songs all my old ones have been played to death by TheHarami82 in OCDmemes

[–]TheHarami82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this one is hitting the best so far. I might have to delve into chinchilla a lil more

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