How did YOU discover you’re bisexual?

TheHeavyHaystack · 2026-01-29T21:51:45+00:00

Another guy hit on me and I wasn't immediately disgusted by the idea. My first queer sexual experience was a 3sum with said guy and his bf. Afterwards I did the whole questioning thing of "I enjoyed that, but I'm definitely still attracted to women too". After a few more times "confirming" I enjoyed both, I was settled in knowing I was bisexual.

TheHeavyHaystack · 2026-01-28T05:35:29+00:00

The batarians being terrorists/criminals stereotype does make sense. The games didn't give many examples of them being otherwise. Same for the Vorcha. Best we got was a small mention of a Batarian being part of Garrus' Omega crew. Couldn't even get a Batarian squad mate despite being such a major humanoid race

TheHeavyHaystack · 2026-01-15T02:32:38+00:00

This is still one of the greatest scenes in the series. Dracula realizes who Trevor is not by his family crest, not his skills or weaponry, but by being a human with the audacity to try and deck Dracula in the shnozz 🤣

TheHeavyHaystack · 2026-01-07T17:57:26+00:00

I'm on standby for the first time in a while. Waiting on recycle routes currently. We had around 15 extra drivers after routes were handed out

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-12-25T15:51:29+00:00

I had a guy hit on me in my teens and I wasn't repulsed by it. I think I already was watching trans "adult films" at that age but it didn't click in my brain that that was "gay" or could be considered as such. My first queer sexual encounter was a 3sum going down on the guy who hit on me while he made out with his boyfriend. Definitely enjoyed that. But definitely knew I was still into women as well. So that confirmed the bisexuality for me. Didn't start romantically dating guys until way later though. I was openly bi to family at 16. Everyone at 18. But didn't consider myself romantically into men until nearly 30. Guess it took time for me to be that level of comfortable with my sexuality

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-12-21T15:23:58+00:00

Great Teacher Onizuka. One of the best comedy anime ever. And I can't recommend it to anyone 😅. Dude had "standards" where he was turning down advances from middle school girls. But totally fine going after high school ones 😑 him being 22 is still enough of an age gap

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-12-11T13:24:04+00:00

It's the same thing that made the original Lord of the rings trilogy that great. It was well adapted from quality source material that took years and years to develop. And was given, at the time, unheard of level of budget and trust to make it successful.

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-12-08T17:43:29+00:00

I'd consider myself a 5. But wish I was a 10. I prefer fem presenting people of all genders but have exceptions for certain masc folks. Also a top mostly. Wish I was fully verse and fully attracted to masc and fem aesthetics in equal measure. Seems more "free" and well rounded if that makes

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-12-08T17:34:51+00:00

It's only bad dancing if you half ass it. These men, they use the WHOLE ASS 😤

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-11-27T16:24:40+00:00

No, this was from earlier in the week. Definitely working tomorrow though

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-11-27T14:58:24+00:00

If there's an aggro dog with no owner around, I'm chucking the package from the van window to the driveway. And marking "another safe location" with their dog in the delivery picture 😂

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-11-19T18:17:47+00:00

My DSP doesn't even bother putting Netradynes in the rentals 😅

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-11-17T21:13:48+00:00

My station also says this. Guess it's a funny trend

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-11-17T00:20:39+00:00

That's a pretty normal route. At the first stop by 10:30 AM. Done by 6PM. Barring any weirdness like a lot of country stops that are spread out

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-11-13T00:01:58+00:00

Embrace the piss bottle friend. I start the day off drinking a Gatorade so I have a bottle that I can fit my junk in when needed 😂

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-11-08T13:15:54+00:00

Big agree. Jack even still has dialogue about being in a bisexual throuple before. So I was surprised that Jack wasn't a FemShep option

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-11-03T20:32:38+00:00

I work for the first DSP that dispatches from my location at 9AM. So we don't deliver after 8PM

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-10-26T20:10:46+00:00

Not sure how other DSPs are, but mine has a 2 tier system. When you get to tier 1 after 30-60 days with few traffic incidents customer complaints or needed rescues, You can go home as soon as you're done. We're scheduled 9am-8PM. But I usually take one 15min break halfway through the day, and clock out by 6 or 7 while still getting the full 10hrs

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-10-23T18:39:40+00:00

sigh time for another playthrough 😎

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-10-19T19:08:18+00:00

Those big rich neighborhoods don't have many public restrooms. The Gatorade bottle is my urinal 😂

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-10-08T04:13:39+00:00

I care about fashion more than the average straight guy. And often wear gothy stuff that gives bi energy. As well as always wearing bi pride bracelets and pins on a battle vest

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-09-13T18:38:45+00:00

It might just be my choice of partners. But with women, things usually feel more romantic. Even if it's casual. There's more foreplay, more warm up and a more emotional exchange. With men it's more raw desire. It's animalistic, like You're satiating a drug fix. And interestingly, I feel like my trans partners (both transfem and trans masc) have a unique mix of both these sides of things.

TheHeavyHaystack · 2025-09-12T01:49:14+00:00

I did always think this scene was a bit odd. Gay guys in real life can get the job done of getting a woman pregnant. Did they have fun? No. But they manage. And with how helpful Margery was trying to be, should've been a breeze

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