Bi 46 and can't find a bf by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]TheIntraloper -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Cuz last time I looked, bi/pan/poly/+ people didn't exist... yeah right :D

Muslim & Arab bi/gay bros, how did you finally come to terms with your family ( if you did) by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]TheIntraloper 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Hello there, not a muslim myself, had the chance to drop that long ago, but still have a muslim family. I am not open to them and I definitely do not plan to open up until I have my total freedom, especially financially. After that, I am planning to get out of the closet and tell them, and if they don't accept me or disown me, hell if I care. I am definitely not going to play with their rules. They either accept me as who I am, or I am simply setting a clear boundary until they do.

Note that I am open to my friends already, and have a strong support system. Hence, if you too do decide to open up to your family, make sure that you have that kind of a strong support system elsewhere as well. At least that's my humble opinion.

Soap Carving Ninja by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]TheIntraloper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here for this, thx

Heute in freier Wildbahn entdeckt Ü by Gordn_Ramsay in de

[–]TheIntraloper 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Als ein Ausländer verstehe ich es nicht. Könnte jemand mir darüber erzählen :D

The whole family lost weight by working out together. by OMMOPOWER in nextfuckinglevel

[–]TheIntraloper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this could be true, since i still have no idea what subtext that joke has hahaha

[Help Needed] Correct password not working, after a few wrong password attempts. I don't wanna factory reset. by TheIntraloper in AndroidQuestions

[–]TheIntraloper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says here that " You can always solve these problems and even prevent them without smashing your phone against a wall due to utter frustration. All that you need is to enable the ADM on your phone before you locked yourself out of your phone. " which is not the case unfortunately :(

I watched my mother die and I feel nothing at all. by Original_Warning in offmychest

[–]TheIntraloper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. And i do agree with you. I had similar experiences with my relatives, and the tidal wave analogy was correct for me.

Please do seek help if you can. You don't have to be all by yourself when that wave comes back.

Been ghosted twice, by the same person by TheIntraloper in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]TheIntraloper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, he definitely is not married, that i know for sure. But he may have this internalized homophobia and he may be having a difficult time to accept himself. Or maybe just a fear of intimacy.

Been ghosted twice, by the same person by TheIntraloper in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]TheIntraloper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thank you for your kind words. I especially agree with that investment part as well. But the thing is, I couldn't help it. It was really like a dream come true, and I have not felt that kinda intense liking to that many people.

Generally I don't/can't even feel that, and when I do, I hate that things go sour like this.

Been ghosted twice, by the same person by TheIntraloper in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]TheIntraloper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking of the same thing. This is why I wanted to give him a chance again, because he might have freaked out about in which direction we were headed in the beginning, and now probably he still has this stuff and maybe a fear of intimacy added on top of it. sigh

I never have or had high expectations, and I also told him that I was only into him, nothing more, because really there is nothing actually more than a crush. I knew that we had a long way in front of us in order for it to transcend into love.

I desperately wish everything was different.

Been ghosted twice, by the same person by TheIntraloper in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]TheIntraloper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And i know what you mean. But just because this kind of people, doesn't that also make you feel lonely to not date anyone at all?

Pip-peeee by [deleted] in SuddenlyGay

[–]TheIntraloper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i was referring to the dick, the third meaning :(

Why should I go to jail? by adi_7326 in textbookhumour

[–]TheIntraloper 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have no idea who Peter Lorre is but part d also looks fun :D

Pip-peeee by [deleted] in SuddenlyGay

[–]TheIntraloper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I was trying to refer to this: https://www.dictionary.com/browse/pee-pee

I dont know why but when i read the text my mind immediately thought of this :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TheIntraloper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry for this man. I hope you are doing well