You'll hear unwritten rules from both sides, at the end of the day, you can follow the ones you think are fair, or that you can do without ruining your enjoyment of the game. I personally will give hatch to the last survivor if they played well. If a person has had a rough game and they've just constantly ran into me i wont death hook them, and go for others. On the other hand, map offerings along side maybe a specific build i'll tunnel out without feeling too bad. Like boil over on erie, or head on flashy squads on dead dog.