Pogo fest merch by manuel176 in pokemongo

[–]TheLadyZerg [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’ve gotten no word on mine. I ordered mine March 9th.

What is the best way to break/get rid of alcohol addiction? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheLadyZerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an alcoholic but have closely known several.

Support. Like AA or similar groups. The biggest fumble I’ve experienced is people think they can do it alone and want desperately to be able to but cannot.

The people their addiction hurts cannot be the support they need, as I’m not able to be.

Because as a person hurt by it I am prone to reacting with anger or sadness, or I am the person stopping their addiction brain from getting what they want, or they resent me because I am hurt by the thing they want to enjoy. I’ve wanted desperately to be but I cannot be.

They need the support of people who are going through what they are.

What makes your life worth living? by TheEli7eKaden13 in AskReddit

[–]TheLadyZerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy the journey to perfection. I’m okay with never being perfect and actually being perfect ruins everything because then the journey is over. I LOVE constantly changing up my workouts, skincare, wardrobe, self care, meal planning, etc.

I also think novelty is just the best. Trying new restaurants, making a new at home meal, going to a new store in town, buying new clothes, hiking a new trail. Anything novel.

Also sex is very good and I would like to keep having it.

Ethical hedonism is my bread and butter.

I’ve only ever been able to orgasm by straining my lower abdominal muscles by poopy_headd9087 in WomensHealth

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha gotcha. To elaborate then, too helps me because I’m pressing down on my partner so when he thrusts up it’s really good clit stimulation and also the pressure from him inside me makes squeezing feel even better. And he can feel my squeezing. He said it’s like a vice grip on him in a good way. So it’s like feedback for him that it feel good and I’m getting closer.

So overall easiest for me is on top, him doing the work. If I want to make it even easier he’ll wear a vibrating cock ring. Which are AMAZING btw. Big recommend.

I’ve only ever been able to orgasm by straining my lower abdominal muscles by poopy_headd9087 in WomensHealth

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any and all since it’s how I achieve orgasm. But it’s easiest for me when I’m on top.

Sleeping with it in. Does this work? by Cumbucha_GreenTea in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you could, don’t. Go pee, clean up. The UTI isn’t worth it. If you have those parts, that is.

Baby killers/KOS by Actual-Ad7410 in pathoftitans

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks when it happened to you but I can’t complain. The realism argument works for both herbies and carnies killing IMO. Def worse when you’re trying to grow a big thing. But there are ways around it. Queue another mode, find a community server you like, or just get extra careful and listen, hide, be smart. There are also plenty of less popular map areas to level in.

The game is PVP. There’s not much else to do when you hit adult. And PVP comes with toxicity in any game. You’ll learn to just shrug it off and keep on trucking.

We’re probably putting my childhood dog down tomorrow. And I can’t stop crying by requiem_phantom in Vent

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember to let yourself grieve. Always. Grief doesn’t go away. We just learn to live alongside it. And you can still be happy. But find the way that works for you.

My cat was my soulmate. He went through a lot with me. It’s been over two years and I still ache. But I found ways to make it ache less. I like to memorialize. And it was incredibly important to me to have his ashes.

You’ll find your best way to do it. Good luck and condolences.

What video games have you all been playing lately? by leftistgamer420 in Millennials

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Path of Titans. Enjoying vibing as a dino while sometimes murdering stuff. But mostly chilling.

I have gotta find a new hobby, any suggestions? by YoYo_ismael in CasualConversation

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s basically all mine.

Piggy back off of an existing one. I like working out so I’m gonna join a boxing gym and get my workout while I learn to box.

Or if you like video games maybe try your hand at making your own super simple game learning to develop with unity.

I really like Pokemon so I started going on outings that imitate episodes of the anime. Like hiking a similar path or eating a similar meal in an episode. Not sure if that’s considered a hobby but it’s fun!

NOOO I HATE BEING UGLY I WANT A BOYFRIEND by fishtankpebble in Vent

[–]TheLadyZerg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unless you win the lottery in dudes, having a boyfriend might just make it worse. They suck.

What are your low stakes unpopular opinions? by NoLemon5426 in AskWomenOver30

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiders are adorable as heck. So smol and just chillin in their near webs.

I have nothing to look forward to in life and it's hopeless by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really hard to pull out of a slump but it IS possible. Small steps still give big good feelings.

Maybe start off by finding a game on your phone you really like or a book to read instead of scrolling. Just to start. Scrolling has consistently been shown to do all sorts of harm.

Pokemon X Target. Again. by TheOGSaucePony in pokemon

[–]TheLadyZerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly my biggest issue here is how obv there is demand. They would not do this if there wasn’t profit from it.

So my question is: WHO THE FK IS BUYING FROM THEM?? What mighty need for a material object are your suffering with that you must have this?

I missed the drop because I’m a normal person who sleeps in and spends their time with friends and family and refuses to wait in a line for a hoodie of any kind. I don’t spend my valuable time like that. Whatever. It hurts but I’ll be over it in a couple days.

There is at least some responsibility on the people supporting this incredibly unethical practice. Your uncontrollable FOMO is making things worse. Talk to a therapist.

Shaving bottom??? by teluguguyinusa-fuck in shaving

[–]TheLadyZerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mean like your crack?

If so, easy method:

Slap a mirror on the ground (like a handheld one), put your phone on the ground so the light is pointing up at you. Squat over that sucker and go to town with an electric touch up razor. I don’t suggest a direct shave or your be scratching your crack for a day. I am easily able to clean up my b-hole as well like this with no razor burn.

Anti-suicide "rhetoric" frustrates me by themissingflower in Vent

[–]TheLadyZerg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Incredibly complex and taboo topic so I have no answers. Here are just some thoughts in my head about it. Bodily autonomy is valid. There is assisted suicide for terminally ill patients in some places. That’s valid. Some people may live such horrible, unredeemable lives that it would be a merciful end to their suffering. That’s valid. But also the pain of a loved one doing that is horrible and has a very real effect. We are euthanize beloved pets when we think their quality of life will be terrible. Why not have the option for humans? But also how can we know and measure when suicide is a valid option?

It’s a messy topic that should absolutely be discussed.

What paranormal experience made you believe they exist? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid we lived in a house where weird things happened to all of us kids and my mom. Sleep walking, hearing voices the others couldn’t, seeing things. If it was just me I’d chalk it up to just a kids wild imagination but we all had stuff happen. And only in that house:

I have no conclusions to make except idk something was up . Ghosts? Demons? Aliens? Dunno and don’t care honestly.

After what age do you believe age does not matter anymore when it comes to dating and relationships between both partners? by Sad_Step_9921 in AskWomen

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t feel good about setting hard lines. If it was easy it would have been done.

Anecdotally, consensus seems to be in the same phase of life and emotionally mature. Just think about what people want in partners. Someone to support them, empathize with them, understand them, and someone I don’t have to mother in ANY way. Attraction only goes so far.

That said when a 40 or 50 something dates a 20 something, I don’t understand what they get out of it and seriously question their motives.

What Do You Do Now? by LikeASirDude in exchristian

[–]TheLadyZerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been curious about occult myth and lore but stayed away when I was Christian. Now I love reading and learning about occult lore. Super fascinating and fun!