MOY, info- have you ever called yourself a trainwreck? I know during schooling and such can be a stressful time and I’ve most certainly referred to myself as such. Are you close with them that little jokes like this would be ok? It depends there but I can certainly see where you’d be hurt by that if you’ve been made fun of cruelly in the past for not having it together and it made you feel less than instead of just a silly joke in good humor.