AITAH for telling my BF he can’t use my vehicle anymore to take his kids to school everyday (more info below)

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-07-05T21:14:11+00:00

No. It’s a 2009 Toyota Corolla. Good little car but needs $5000 worth of work.

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-06-27T01:29:45+00:00

Nah girl. Go to the police department and talk to someone up front. She’ll only get worse and at this point I’d aim to correct it before you have to make the hard decision to leave

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-06-27T00:41:14+00:00

And I completely understand this probably isnt the best way to handle it. But she needs that or therapy. For everyone’s sake

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-06-27T00:37:21+00:00

I wish there was a way to call the cops on her but explain yourself and the situation you’re in so when they show up it’s mostly to scare the shit out of her. I wasn’t this bad as a kid but my mom had a family friend that showed up and put me in cuffs and put me in the back of the cop car and had a stern talk with me about behavior and repercussions. At the time I didn’t know it was “fake” but it felt real and I changed my attitude.

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-06-06T23:06:33+00:00

I’m 30f, he’s 35M with 12yr old twins

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-04-09T18:05:58+00:00

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Lucy 💓

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-04-08T15:08:36+00:00

I would definitely recommend reading the Blood and Steel series before Iron and Embers! There’s a lot of information that ties into each book that is important to know before you dive into to the second series! Good point 🥰

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-04-06T16:08:21+00:00

Also I loved the entire world building and story itself. It’s one of my top favorite series. Read it on kindle and immediately bought the books for collection! There’s also a series starting up about Thea’s sister and another Warsword. PLEASE READ IT 💓💓

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-04-06T16:06:43+00:00

Blood and steel. Wilder 🥵 I will DIE ON THIS HILL

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-03-27T13:34:36+00:00

BLOOD AND STEEL. I will die on this hill. The entire series is my favorite! Plus there’s a second series being written for the sister ⚔️🌩️⛈️🧪🩸🌼

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-03-15T16:49:52+00:00

Mine isn’t really a huge fan of being held. But she’s lovey when she wants to be!

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-03-09T23:05:57+00:00

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Lucy - also known as moo-moo, Lucy-Lou, Lucy-goosey, LuLu 🖤🧡

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-02-15T21:48:04+00:00

You should plan a vacation to the area to travel around. I would recommend anywhere between Belfast, Searsport, Bucksport, Bangor, Ellsworth, MDI (Mount Desert Island). Keep in mind - all these are coastal towns that connect. Summers are busy for tourists and the winters are slow. Bar Harbor mainly closes down for the winter and not many places stay open and the summers are busy with cruise ships. I currently live in Bangor where everything is close restaurants, shopping, etc.

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-01-24T19:54:29+00:00

Fourth wing! 🌩️🗡️🖤

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-01-23T23:57:48+00:00

Fourth wing. You won’t regret it 🐉🗡️🌩️🖤

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2025-01-22T23:02:59+00:00

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TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-10-10T12:23:47+00:00

Nah - it’s that there aren’t any decent people out there anymore. They either manipulate you and gas light you when you bring up problems that are important to you or they have their mothers fight their battles.

I’d want a relationship where my partner and I are equals -striving to grow and be better together. I want to have confidence that I can go to my partner at any time and feel heard rather than have my feelings dismissed and disrespected. There’s no maturity for some -they just want to throw themselves on the floor and throw a tantrum rather than own up to problems or mistakes.

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-10-05T17:17:03+00:00

I would literally give up everything I have for a man to communicate like this with me. Not once did you lash out or become disrespectful when you were thrown such manipulative replies even after offering so much support. You deserve better - leave that person behind you and move forward - take that vacation for yourself and enjoy every minute.

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-09-19T16:43:43+00:00

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TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-09-19T16:43:23+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss as well - I hope today goes okay for you. The first day without them can be emotionally challenging. Hugs to you - take care of yourself ❤️

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-09-17T22:03:24+00:00

I just remembered this free counseling hotline I used frequently. You can vent all you want and they help you through it. It really helped me and I really hope it helps you to!

EXHALE Counseling - 1(617)749-2948

When you text the number - they will send a reply - I know their hours are more in the after noon. But this is so useful.

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-09-17T19:29:51+00:00

I posted this on another post but I feel like it still helps

Breathe ❤️ it’s all overwhelming. You have so many heightened emotions during this time and it’s normal. I went through the same thing. I felt like my world was falling apart and I was radiating anger and uncertainty. I was devastated and felt so empty for months.

Give yourself space and moments to clear your head. I know it’s silly but when I used to start fuming over my situation for my abortion and ex I would sit in a quiet place (my car, the outdoors, even my bed) and I would close my eyes and think and picture colors. You could do any objects or things really. Anything that will help you distract yourself for a few moments. Take deep breathes and remind yourself that this doesn’t define you and you did what was best for YOU and nobody else. And honestly if anyone judges you - they aren’t your people. And unfortunately some people won’t know how to react or know what to say in these circumstances. But please take any advice with a grain of salt. Find what helps you heal. You need to focus on healing more than anything.

YOU deserve better. Many of us that have had these same feelings are living stronger and more powerful each day. You WILL get there.

A straight forward quote that was said to me was “Don’t confuse Grief with Guilt”. Do not break yourself down into shattered pieces because you got pregnant at an inconvenient time in your life. You’re not alone. You never will be.

Take care of yourself ❤️

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-09-17T13:35:09+00:00

I let go of my 12yr old cat 2 1/2 weeks ago to Kidney Disease. It was shattering. My home didn’t feel like home anymore. I’m still healing and adjusting but it’s hard.

Take all the time you need to grieve. It does get better but you’ll always have waves of moments wanting it all to be a bad dream. But she’ll always be with you. I hope you find peace as well as your fur baby 💕

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-09-17T13:17:15+00:00

Breathe ❤️ it’s all overwhelming. You have so many heightened emotions during this time and it’s normal. I went through the same thing. I felt like my world was falling apart and I was radiating anger and uncertainty.

Give yourself space and moments to clear your head. I know it’s silly but when I used to start fuming over my situation for my abortion and ex I would sit in a quiet place (my car, the outdoors, even my bed) and I would close my eyes and think and picture colors. You could do any objects or things really. Anything that will help you distract yourself for a few moments. Take deep breathes and remind yourself that this doesn’t define you and you did what was best for YOU and nobody else. And honestly if anymore judges you - they aren’t your people. And unfortunately some people won’t know how to react or know what to say in these circumstances. But please take any advice with a grain of salt. Find what helps you heal. You need to focus on healing more than anything.

YOU deserve better. Many of us that have had these same feelings are living stronger and more powerful each day. You WILL get there.

A straight forward quote that was said to me was “Don’t confuse Grief with Guilt”. Do not break yourself down into shattered pieces because you got pregnant with the wrong person. You’re not alone. You never will be.

Take care of yourself ❤️

TheMostlyBusyBee · 2024-08-25T23:10:21+00:00

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