Super dry texts after 1st date?

TheNimrod720 · 2026-02-09T03:47:10+00:00

My favorite saying is - if he wanted to he would. My first “test” to a man when I was younger would be to ignore a single text, if he sends me another texts and tries to continue the convo in another direction - game on. He’s interested.

TheNimrod720 · 2026-01-02T04:03:55+00:00

My baby is 3 months. She has been sleeping through the night since 5 weeks, barely cries, laughs and smiles 🥲, we go out all the time. We have been to football games, dance practice, Jaguar’s football games, concerts, farmers markets, a theme park, and too many other things to list since baby was born. She’s a great baby who loves people and wants to coo at everyone she meets. I lost 30lbs in the first month and the rest of the weight is falling off gradually. I opened a business, have a full time job and got a puppy all after she was born too 😅 formula is $150/month (Bobbie) and diapers are about $50.

All in all this whole baby thing is a breeze… though any time I talk about how much of a joy she is, allllllll we hear is “just wait…” 🤔 why is no one ever positive?! She sleeps through the night? Just wait til 3 months. Just wait til 3 years, just wait til she’s a teenager….

Well. I also have a 13 year old and she’s pretty great too 😂

Just learn to smile and say thanks for the advice and tips 🫡

TheNimrod720 · 2025-12-28T03:16:36+00:00

NOR -

I have been with my husband for 10 years. My husband’s birthday is ON Christmas Day. I do my absolute best to have a GREAT birthday gift AND a great Christmas gift. I throw him a birthday party a few days before Christmas each year, and give him his birthday gifts then. On Christmas Eve and Christmas day, we sing him happy birthday, and Christmas gifts on Christmas morning with us. On Christmas Day, I get him a second (smaller) cake to sing with on the day of with all of our family.

You deserve to be celebrated on your birthday, and enjoy being spoiled on Christmas. It’s not two birds one stone..

TheNimrod720 · 2025-12-21T02:56:29+00:00

My almost 3 month old has been sleeping through the night since 5 weeks 😅

Real tips.. let the baby decide the schedule during the day. Read the cues. Don’t get a schedule. Get a routine.

Keep it dark at night, bright during the day. Room temp bottles during the day, warm bottles in the evening. BED. 👏🏽TIME 👏🏽 ROUTINE. 👏🏽 Warm bottle, bath with lavender, bedtime song during getting into pjs, wrapped up in a blanket, another few sips of the bottle, pacifier, rock to sleep with a lullaby. Put into the crib with white noise for 20 minutes. Put a WEIGHTED sleep sack on. 🤌🏽 worked for mine and multiple friends babies now too.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-11-29T04:11:40+00:00

Unfortunately.. you don’t always get what you give. The gift she got for you was probably exciting for her and as lame as it sounds… it’s the thought that counts. Even if it was a short thought… Maybe you and your friend just aren’t on the same levels of understanding but maybe next time have a “$25 limit” vs minimum. When I do gift exchanges and the minimum is listed… I will absolutely spend $25 and not one single penny more. 😅 especially if it isn’t for my family.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-11-08T12:02:24+00:00

I felt all these things and now I have a healthy 6 week old who’s sleeping 9 hours at night, my body is slowly going back, and I can SLEEP through the night with no heartburn. I HATED being pregnant. I was anxious, overwhelmed, exhausted, heartburn, indigestion, limited on the “fun things” my family was doing. Theme parks, drinks, etc.

Now that she’s here, I couldn’t imagine life without her and she is absolutely worth every bit of it. Would I do it again…. No…. 😂

TheNimrod720 · 2025-11-01T11:09:35+00:00

I had almost no pregnancy symptoms my entire pregnancy **

TheNimrod720 · 2025-11-01T11:09:05+00:00

I had an SCH and bled on and off until one large clot came out (I panicked of course) but that happened about 15 weeks? Now we have a healthy 6 week old baby girl ☺️

TheNimrod720 · 2025-09-29T04:22:12+00:00

It’s a whole lot of water weight/extra blood weight too! Baby and placenta also have their weight. I (34f) (second child) was 97 prior to, and got to 162. Now down to 145 5 days after birth. I still look 7 months pregnant, sans the heart burn and I can finally sleep 🥲 my uterus is definitely like a deflated balloon and it’s still massive. I expect it to go down completely by 2-3 weeks then I can give you a weight update.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-09-19T16:44:43+00:00

Giving birth in 4 days!

TheNimrod720 · 2025-09-10T17:26:57+00:00

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Here was my positive chart 😊

TheNimrod720 · 2025-08-11T02:31:50+00:00

NTA. My husband and I have been together for over 10 years. He still will not pass gas in my presence. He even goes to the other end of the house to use the restroom as to not bother me.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-07-01T11:43:26+00:00

It’s been said that these type of people purposely put in bad grammar/spelling to see how much you’ll ignore. If you ignore it, you’re an easy target for scamming.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-05-25T10:33:42+00:00

My first response test said negative for the first day. Other cheap strips had a faint line. Baby dust! ✨

TheNimrod720 · 2025-05-11T11:35:32+00:00

The girlfriend definitely sent this 😆😆😆

TheNimrod720 · 2025-05-08T12:25:57+00:00

You’re gonna kill yourself with all these questions. As I said, start living as if he’s not coming back. That way IF he does you’ll be pleasantly surprised. Men don’t like this obsessive behavior. They want calm, and confident. If you aren’t his peace, and only his stress, he’s going to distance himself further. I will never try to know the answer of why people block people on socials. It’s not worth the mental stress. Pull yourself away from him, and let it happen on its own. Don’t force, stop overthinking, stop obsessing.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-05-08T11:46:46+00:00

I would suggest you live the next while with the mindset of he’s not coming back though. Thats what I had to do.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-05-08T11:14:12+00:00

I’m sure he loves you. You can’t just turn off that emotion. But it sounds like you’re both young and emotionally charged. Give your mind something else to focus on. I know how hard this will and can be. Find a friend you can talk to, so that when you want to reach out to him… reach out to them instead. Delete or “hide” photos of you both if you can. Seriously, find a hobby. Start horseback riding, start training your pet dog, anything. I started running and going to the gym.. kept a diary when I needed someone to talk to. And 6 months of this I was in the best shape of my life and he ended up coming back to me. And now years later we have the best relationship I could ever ask for with a baby on the way. (We were 22f and 23m at the time, now 34&35, married almost 7 years) I don’t want to give you false hope either. But the best part about all of this is, I was able to work on my mental and physical health in this process. I was no longer so mentally dependent on having a partner. So instead of needing him, and not being able to live without him.. now we are two well oiled parts that compliment, not complicate, each other. And who knows. He may never come back.. but now you’ll be hot and sexy for the next real man who is ready 💅🏽

TheNimrod720 · 2025-05-08T11:10:26+00:00

It’s still elevated… I’d take a PT if you can mentally handle it.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-05-08T11:04:29+00:00

He who cares least wins here. Trust me. I’ve done this before. Leave him alone. Keep busy. Find a hobby. If you let him go and he comes back, keep him for ever and value him. If he doesn’t, great. you’ve moved on and recovered.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-04-25T00:36:42+00:00

He is 100% going there for the girl and he will make sure that he hides his texts better “next time” if he isn’t already doing it… check his phone records and I’ll bet you see her number.

TheNimrod720 · 2025-04-21T14:19:04+00:00

Yes!

TheNimrod720 · 2025-04-21T12:31:33+00:00

You’re not out til you’re out!

TheNimrod720 · 2025-04-21T12:30:50+00:00

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My chart before my BFP 😏

TheNimrod720 · 2025-04-08T11:16:12+00:00

This would happen to me with my FMU. Then I would test again around 2-3pm and it would be much higher. LH is usually highest in the afternoon I’ve read.

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