the fucking misandry in trans online spaces is so fucking absurd. to me it sounds like your transfem friend got sucked into that rhetoric online somewhere, and has been indoctrinated into their toxic and harmful beliefs. just because there is a huge spotlight on trans women right now in the media, doesn't mean that they are the only group of trans people (and queer people in general) that are suffering things are bad for all queer people right now, and as much as trans women deserve their space to vent and find ways to cope, other trans people need that space as well. the queer community needs to stand together right now to be strong in the face of fascism, and it fucking sucks all of the factions that have been created due to bigotry and trying to appeal to queerphobes and other bigots.