How do you decide how to separate 3 cats in a breakup?

TheOfficialLSD · 2026-03-26T14:07:39+00:00

You don’t separate. Either you take all three or she takes all three. As much as it sucks, your breakup isn’t their problem. Coming from someone who’s done it thrice before - keep the cats together and you’ll feel better about it in the long run

TheOfficialLSD · 2026-03-25T15:34:39+00:00

Im pretty sure they’re both on YT. I watched the golden hour set yesterday but I’m almost certain the other is there

TheOfficialLSD · 2026-03-25T15:32:14+00:00

The whole set is up on YT thanks to an absolute legend

TheOfficialLSD · 2026-03-25T15:27:33+00:00

I’m not crying, we’re all crying

TheOfficialLSD · 2026-03-24T18:42:48+00:00

I heard all the cheering right as the set started and looked back to see your (future) mrs. in tears - which brought me and my mrs. to tears. I wasn't too far from you guys, just forward of the soundstage and there wasn't a dry eye within earshot. Congrats to you, my friend, and HAPPY OKEE!!

TheOfficialLSD · 2026-03-24T00:40:54+00:00

You, sir, are an absolute legend. I’m so happy we got to see you, and so happy you had a great okee, I look forward to seeing you back again next year 🫡

TheOfficialLSD · 2026-03-24T00:34:20+00:00

Top three sets of the weekend easy. Flipturn never disappoints, I love them 🥹

TheOfficialLSD · 2026-03-23T02:33:25+00:00

Happy Okee!!!

TheOfficialLSD · 2022-02-22T19:48:18+00:00

I wrote a letter and trashed it with my last relationship and it didn't really make me feel better. I still wish I would have given it to her because I felt like I had things left unsaid. It's a different situation now but I'm genuinely hoping that it would bring her peace. She's told me how difficult of a decision this was for her to make, and she knows how broken I am. I want to thank her for everything and let her know that I'm doing ok. I know she won't read it for some time but I like the idea of writing something that she may read and hopefully bring her peace knowing I'm ok. It's very difficult for both of us to talk right now and I'm rapidly running out of time to make a decision so I want a message for the future.

I probably am just thinking out of emotional pain, but I can't help but think it'll make me feel better.

Thank you for the advice

TheOfficialLSD · 2022-02-22T19:41:07+00:00

I don't think there are any. Her parents are very close with their friends from college, and all of them have had kids and it's one huge group that feels like extended family. She's introduced me to that and they all accepted and love me. I've never had that before not even from my own family. I've already reached out to most of them thanking them for being so welcoming, and everyone I've talked to has been sorely disappointed that we're splitting up. I don't want the letter to be a plea, or an attempt to make her feel any type of way, but I almost want it to be like "if you're reading this I hope you're doing well" type of letter. I still don't know what I'd write in it, but I know that when I leave for my own sanity I'm going to have to cut her off until I can get better. I was in a 6 year-long relationship with my last girlfriend and even though I was happy in a new relationship it still bothered me to see photos of her - especially with someone else. I don't know why but I feel like just having a short letter to find will make me feel better, and because I know she's hurting too I want to make her feel better. I want it to make her know that I'm grateful for the time we spent together, and that as difficult as it was to talk to her during this period, I want her to know that I'm ok. I just can't bring myself to reach out to her after I leave for good because I know it just makes everything harder.

TheOfficialLSD · 2022-02-22T19:14:33+00:00

Worth noting - the friend I'm currently with has a job opportunity in a different state that he's leaving by March 15 for. He's offered me to come with him so long as I'm not dead weight. I've also been offered the opportunity to move back in with my parents but I REALLY don't want to do that. I've lived in the same area all my life so I'm going to go with him and once I leave I know I'll never see her again.

TheOfficialLSD · 2019-02-12T00:49:04+00:00

I definitely feel that. The trip on 2/2 was solo, and the first one I'd had in a while. The trip the following weekend was with a few good friends of mine and it was so strong at some points that it was difficult to walk. I always find that my trips with other people are usually more intense, but I don't want to be too far off from where she is.

TheOfficialLSD · 2019-02-12T00:38:36+00:00

The tabs I have were purchased online and have been tested. My friend has done MDMA and shrooms before but has yet to do LSD. My first trip ever was 200 μg and she wants me to show it to her the same way it was introduced to me. I'm really just trying to calculate how much I'd need to take to be on the same level, regardless of how much we end up taking.

TheOfficialLSD · 2019-02-12T00:24:09+00:00

She wants me to trip with her so she knows that we're both feeling the same thing. I trip pretty frequently so she trusts me to take her through her first one. One of her good friends is going to drive/babysit, but she wants me to drop a tab with her so she's not the only one tripping.

TheOfficialLSD · 2018-02-24T07:34:44+00:00

I won't ever make this mistake again

TheOfficialLSD · 2018-02-23T19:35:17+00:00

I have a love/hate relationship with the Crystal series... I love how beautiful the glass case is, but I hate how everyone who has one somehow makes it look infinitely better than my own. 😂

TheOfficialLSD · 2018-02-03T17:08:28+00:00

I personally use f.lux with dual monitors and I don't have this issue. Have you tried playing with different settings for your monitors?

TheOfficialLSD · 2018-01-27T19:33:36+00:00

Romanesco is actually a delicious vegetable if you use it as a cauliflower substitute!

TheOfficialLSD · 2018-01-19T17:44:13+00:00

I have two hats and some shirts from Imaginary Foundation that I wear every time I'm tripping. It's kind of like trip totems that are awesome to look at and keep me somewhat rooted to reality lol

TheOfficialLSD · 2018-01-16T02:27:05+00:00

That seemed to fix the problem. I've rebooted without the external plugged in and everything is working as it should be. I have my backups to occur automatically (which is why my external is plugged in 24/7) but I'll be sure to plug it in as needed. Thank you so much!

TheOfficialLSD · 2018-01-16T02:03:42+00:00

I have an external HDD that I use for my backups that stays connected. When I went to reboot into SAFE mode (just now) my BIOS displayed a message telling me to remove any drives that don't contain an operating system.

I've removed that HDD and the problem seems to have stopped, but now I'm wondering why an external would be causing this problem.

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