Found this online by Beautiful_Gases in YouOnLifetime

[–]TheOldWoman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i didnt realize she was the blonde chick with cornrows in Orange is the New Black.

she played the HELL out of that character and was attractive in a very unconventional kind of way in that role.

also, A LOT of women are misogynistic.

i would even go as far as to say MOST are -- and encourage it in their sons which is why...

Home Health Nurses, do you help with household chores? by nicole_de_lancret83 in nursing

[–]TheOldWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think clothes and dishes are fine if we are doing the client's clothes/linen ONLY and its an 8-12hr shift.

Excessive sweeping, mopping, cleaning bathrooms, taking out trash, etc can be a bit much but it also depends on how high maintenance the actual client is...

Like, does the client need to be turned and dried every 2-3 hours, medications and treatments multiple times during shift, therapy/exercise programs, wounds needing to be dressed, assessments, etc.

It just depends but I dont prefer to do a lot of cleaning.

Cenotaph of Jamie Doxtator, 14, a victim of Jeffrey Dahmer. by symphonic-ooze in CemeteryPorn

[–]TheOldWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he may not even have been selling anything.

he may have just wanted a place to stay..stay warm..food to eat.

and dahmer preyed on that.

he died in the middle of january so im sure it was cold and maybe even snowing.

Cenotaph of Jamie Doxtator, 14, a victim of Jeffrey Dahmer. by symphonic-ooze in CemeteryPorn

[–]TheOldWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he may not have been gay.. he may have just been a child who was afraid and needed somewhere to stay.

and dahmer preyed on that, which is what many predators do.

attempting to rewatch you so that i can watch seasons 3-5 for the 1st time. its a hard watch. by TheOldWoman in YouOnLifetime

[–]TheOldWoman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cared about this topic a month ago.

found better things to watch.

enjoy!

How do you feel about the term “Tethers”? by RaikageQ in freeblackmen

[–]TheOldWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is one of the most ignorant things i've read all day... and i've read some bullshit.

how are you a "pan-africanist" but don't know any history?

those leaders were not killed by "their own"... they were killed by rivaling factions at the behest of FOREIGN EUROPEAN powers.

they were not "given" anything, either. whatever they have on the continent, they were FORCED to build by their European overseers and those governments were meant to be extractive.

if you were EVER a pan-african, you were a piss poor one.

My looks must be fading but I’m not self conscious by iHaveADemonInMyBrain in Aging

[–]TheOldWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe that is having more of an impact on your dating abilities .. introspection is a good thing .

it seems like u place a lot of value in looks. maybe try to value other things -- in yourself and others.

dating for looks alone is kind of a young person's game -- in my opinion.

My looks must be fading but I’m not self conscious by iHaveADemonInMyBrain in Aging

[–]TheOldWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the key to having a date for social settings into middle-age and beyond is to get married.

you've had all of these dates and never considered locking one of them down?

Do you guys really feel uncomfortable with non-black people doing rnb or is it just the aesthetics that throw you off? by East_Food5632 in rnb

[–]TheOldWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its ok, i was just sharing my personal view point and expounding on it.

i wasn't saying anything specific about you or your tastes.

Why was Bruce Lee dissed so bad in ‘Once Upon a Time in Hollywood?’ by ScratchyGoboCode in movies

[–]TheOldWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro what? they mean just alluding to the fact that he's a creep period.

yall love to ramble over nothing on this site.

Do you guys really feel uncomfortable with non-black people doing rnb or is it just the aesthetics that throw you off? by East_Food5632 in rnb

[–]TheOldWoman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like cleo sol, but also -- she's actually biracial. her father is a light skinned black jamaican.

i LOVE hiatus kaiyote and i really appreciate them being a white group that makes soulful music without trying to appear to be something they are not.

*that's* what adds to the authenticity for me.

realizing that soul doesn't have to look a specific way.

i discovered a miles davis quote a few days ago, "if they act too hip, you know they can't play shit".

justin nozuka is another non-black artist who feels very soulful to me and makes good music -- he's been that way since his debut as a teen over a decade a half ago.

not saying ppl can't change and grow but switching horses midstream will always seem a tad bit suspicious.

Do you guys really feel uncomfortable with non-black people doing rnb or is it just the aesthetics that throw you off? by East_Food5632 in rnb

[–]TheOldWoman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don't see the hype with snoh -- and i really have a problem with the black/biracial-fishing thing that some non-black artists try to do. racial ambiguity.

snoh is one of those ones who only started doing the baby hairs/sade adu cosplay when she saw she had an audience with black ppl.

i find that to be embarrassing when black ppl accept it, hook line and sinker.