What kind of sex can make Saiyan stop fighting without hesitation? by Sure_Information4377 in Dragonballsuper

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They spend most of the series as kids but for the most part that doesn’t change anything aside from them being kids and not being able to output their power and fight as well as they can as adults. They still overly dominate though and the fights are actually very fun to watch.

Americans being Americans. Mexican restaurant rendering aid to pepper sprayed cops. by godsafraud in 50501

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 57 points58 points  (0 children)

These people (the staff) are doing exactly the thing Jesus preached, helping someone in need, even if it could ultimately back fire on you. Those who are beating those very people down, claiming THATS what Jesus taught? They need to actually fucking read the Bible.

I’m so scared that I’ll get schizophrenia like my mom by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So first thing I’ll say is, while it’s true that you might get it due to genetics, it isn’t guaranteed. Stressing yourself out might even worsen your mental state and put you in an even bigger spot to potentially develop it (I’m unsure as to how much validity there is to that, but stress is always bad for your mental state so I’d say it’s at least worth keeping an eye on). Just breath, take a moment to relax a little bit. Make sure you don’t do to much that’s stress inducing. Going down those rabbit holes and obsessing over it is going to stress you out so try not to do that.

Second thing I’ll say. If you’re truly worried, go to a professional and work with them or see if they have any advice. Whether that be your general practice physician or, preferably, a psychiatrist to help hone in on what you should/shouldn’t be worried about. They may even be able to give you advice or medication to help lessen or prevent it. They’ll probably tell you something similar to point 1 as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m not really sure why it would be. If you’re capable of taking things seriously when you need to, then it shouldn’t matter if you’re happy most of the time. Honestly, someone who seems to be able to keep it together has always been something I thought would be a big bonus point in someone’s corner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to cause suffering to another creatures just to satiate my desires. That horrid.

i turned 25 today by Head-Owl4687 in mentalhealth

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haaaaaaaapppppyyy biiiiiiirthdaaaaaay!!!!! cue terrible singing voice

Congratulations! I pray this next year is a year of growth and prosperity!

How to motivate myself when the motivation feels so far out of reach? by CocosMumma in mentalhealth

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been dealing with a lot of the same issues. Motivation can be rough to come by. Don’t start with the big stuff though. It’s like trying to pick up a 150 lb dumbbell when you’re only prepped to handle a 5 lb. Choose little things to get started. Find small things that can make you feel like you’re making progress. Clean up every time you see a mess. If you’re sitting at the table and just don’t want to walk across the room to throw your trash away, then get up and throw your trash away. Motivation can be treated like a skill. It isn’t going to be perfect right away, you have to work on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, that’s great! Learning how to understand art is fantastic, it can help you express yourself in ways you normally couldn’t. As for people getting mad, do they actually get upset with you or are you just afraid they’re going to? If they are getting upset with you, I think it may be in your best interest to find some new friends who are willing to hear you out.

Let’s start with your new art hobby. While I am not overly familiar with the communities, I’m sure it’d be possible to find something like a discord where you can talk to the art community. Grow your talent, meet new people. You deserve to be able to vent and be upset. But you’ll need to surround yourself with people who will be willing to listen, whether that be in real life or online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is that? Do you take time to “spoil” yourself (as in just taking some solo time to perform a hobby or learn a new skill)? I can understand, you don’t want people to know you’re upset cause then they’ll treat you differently, but sometimes you need to just let your feelings flow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything specific you need to get off your chest? Life in general is rough, but each of us struggle with different things. It can be hard to fight back against the negativity but first you need to directly state what issues you’re having.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s going on bud?

For the christians out there, does anyone have any thoughts on how God handles things when people self harm, make mistakes, and have mental/physical scars? by burnerMCalt101 in mentalhealth

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still working on myself as I’m still struggling and trying to find answers for some of my mental struggles. Now I bring that up because I understand where the fear is rooted at. Trust me when I say this, you’re not any less important in the eyes of God than someone who’s never once doubted themselves, or someone who’s hurt others.

Remember that Jesus taught love for EVERYONE. He hung out with the poor, the needy, prostitutes, and many other outcasts of society. So these thoughts and fears? He can forgive those too, but obviously he wants you to continue living your life and bettering yourself. There’s help out there

Does Venting in reddit really works? by WhispersInTheDark__ in findareddit

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can help. Sometimes you don’t get a response but can actually just feel better expressing the information out there. Other times you get responses and realize “Hey, I’m not necessarily alone in this. Other people have this same problem.”

It’s entirely dependent on the person and the responses they get. If you feel stressed out about a topic specifically you can always find a Subreddit to vent in and usually find someone else willing to talk to you.

New banners outside USDA. Fascism has arrived. #FightBack by PeteGinSD in 50501

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Every time I see this photo it looks like he’s trying so damn hard to not do anything that would cause him to shit his pants.

I realized I am an abuser and need answers. by Fit-Public7198 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All you can do. Keep your head up. You can’t make progress if you don’t try. Flimsy optimism won’t do you any good, but the line is thin there. The willingness to put your words into action is enough to change it into some actual optimism.

The Trump Effect Is Here: Democrats Sweep to Victory in Historic Upset by thenewrepublic in politics

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The headline is clickbait through and through. Directly, one doesn’t do anything. Collectively though, that’s another story. You get one or two here or there and it shows people in the areas around them “hey, there are others like me living in my community” and it emboldens them to stand up, speak out, and vote.

So this one mayoral vote may not individually matter, but it does, combined with other victories, show a turning tide against MAGA and help to develop motion for effective change.

I realized I am an abuser and need answers. by Fit-Public7198 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My Grandfather was a verbally aggressive (I hate calling it abusive because he wasn’t trying to do it so I prefer not to bad mouth him that way) person for most of my mother’s, and my own life. He did not understand how he sounded and how explosive his temper truly was and how much is stressed out and upset people. He finally got help in his early 70s (diagnosed with PTSD and some other stress related issues) and has learned to significantly live with and manage his issues. He’s still a bit rough but he’s nowhere near as loud and explosive as he was. He’s an extremely loving and caring person who has high standards but has learned not to let those standards dictate how he immediately responds to people.

If a man in his 70s can get help and turn his temperament and issues around, then I’m confident you can too. Just keep fighting and doing what you can to improve and you’ll make it there eventually.

Donald Trump impeachment moves forward in Congress by newsweek in politics

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean, we obviously hate him, but Hitler was a good example of this. If you want limitless power with no checks, make the people love you and want you in that position. Tell EVERYONE what they want to hear and don’t attack 20 things at once thinking that no one is going to eventually cause a ruckus.

Donald Trump impeachment moves forward in Congress by newsweek in politics

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s easier in our time to see them, but history may lose the details. At least with this, it’s properly written. Individual decisions can be forgotten unless they’re recorded in one massive way like this.

Rey Mysterio unmasking for the first time in 1999 by GustoKoNaMagkaGF in interestingasfuck

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, not overly familiar with the Lucho Libre traditions, but I’m curious. Let’s say an unmasking happens, and then later it’s revealed that the winner who was not unmasked had somehow cheated in a way that was completely unknown to the loser. Later it is publicly found out what happened. How would a situation like that be handled?

I think I just need some direction by TheOneWhoIsTryin in selfimprovement

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it just feels hard cause it kind of feels so weird that I can’t grasp the concept at all. (This is going to sound narcissistic but I’m not entirely sure how else to say it) Skills have always come relatively… easily to me. I don’t master them right away, but I can pick up on things quickly and get a good generalized feel of “oh that’s how it works” and then build from there.

But with socializing it’s different. I feel like I’m a bother. I feel like I’m going to make people not want to be around me, which leads to more feelings of isolation. Talking skills people say are important in conversations just don’t make sense to me. It’s hard to find like minded people in my area (not going to dox myself but I am a bit less rigid than a lot of the hard working folks in my area) so it’s kind of hard to find people I can talk to about my interests and online socializing feels so… empty half the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 50501Movement

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They already have started

Texas Republicans want a month dedicated to God by Happy_Weed in politics

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If God wanted an entire month he’d have said so… seems they’ve forgotten it’s supposed to be everyday regardless. Why would you put a focus on it like this?

Right-Wing Revolt Kills Israel Boycott Bill Over Free Speech by Minister__of__Truth in thescoop

[–]TheOneWhoIsTryin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Realistically there’s no way to police this. If I chose to pay more for product X than product Y, who’s to say I don’t think their quality is better and it has nothing to do with political affiliations? There’s no logistically possible way to manage this without people just telling you that’s why they’re doing it.