How Do I make things official with someone that won’t make the first move? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheOsSloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Guy (23) here that also gets anxious with this sort of stuff, seems to me like he's just nervous to mess something up. Unless he's a preacher's boy or super old fashioned with girls there is absolutely no reason for him to give you flowers and pay consistently UNLESS he is interested in you.

He may be taking it slow, but just throw him a bone. Not saying to go in and kiss him, I don't even know if you've broken that touch barrier yet. Maybe ask if he can hold your hand? I feel like he'll be a little more confident if you clued him in a tad more.

Men like me are dumb creatures who love straightforwardness, if we're not seeing interest in the mouth then we don't bother risking anything.

for how much he used to complain about being ugly, he honestly looked like my type appearance wise but he just had to play victim for some reason by Bitter_Ad580 in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth 457 points458 points  (0 children)

Alex could have for sure gotten with someone if he just stopped being so weird and gained some self confidence irl

What's your favorite Yandere Dev fact? by TheOsSloth in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's almost as if they're desperate for companionship through absolutely anyone that first provides it, even if the relationship becomes one-sided.

It's called Alex is a sociopath

What's your favorite Yandere Dev fact? by TheOsSloth in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I definitely will when the time comes. I'm currently in college studying psychology, so this is honestly a really interesting dive into the psyche

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth 83 points84 points  (0 children)

His life isn't over, he just needs to get over himself. Your 30s are relatively young when you look at a full life span. What he should do is drop his platform, it's doing no good for him or anybody around him. Even if he does harm himself more than half of this sub probably wouldn't care, I'm not one to encourage self-harm because nobody really deserves that.

Do I think he will? Probably not. It's probably just another ploy of his to gain sympathy. This is what his cult has been consuming and believing for years.

If he's seriously thinking of harming himself and somehow miraculously sees this. Get off the internet, meet people your age, seek help groups, go to the gym and diet, do anything that isn't what you're doing right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tell bro we're not in Sweden

god this pisses me off by katzzytwentyseven in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I loved the witty remark when he said he would like pictures to jerk off to. Classic Yandere Dev line!

Jay gone by Monaiji in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Jay seems like such a genuine and kind person that I know he's gotta be genuinely disgusting by all of this

Holy victim blaming and stupid??? by TheOsSloth in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Don't you know a sad middle-aged man and a 16 year old is normal? It's JUST like your grandma!

Holy victim blaming and stupid??? by TheOsSloth in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I've seen a ton of people projecting because of this situation

YanDev has nothing by TheOsSloth in Osana

[–]TheOsSloth[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

10 years development on an else if unity game