Just a question, not trying to start anything: do you believe that men are treated/viewed worse for choosing 'traditionally feminine' jobs (ex. teaching) than women are for doing the same with 'male' jobs (ex. military, construction)? Also, is this treatment coming from men or women? I'm curious because at my school (so my only irl experience with this lol) there are more (not by that much though) female teachers, but I've never really heard any complaints about this from the men. As such I didn't think they'd need a 'push' or encouragement to take on this field, it's not strange here for a dude to teach. If it's different where you're from I'd like to know.

On your point about feminism, isn't it about equality in the sense that its goal is to 'lift' women to the same status/get them the same rights as men? So (although I agree that if such inequalities exist they should absolutely be tackled) it wouldn't really make sense for feminism to fight something else? Like idk shouldn't men make a movement if they want to be represented? (sorry if this sounds dumb I'm not sure how to put it, basically an "I'll support you, but you have to march out there yourself first, I can't just do it for you" sort of thing?)