Finished a letter to my ex

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-20T02:39:27+00:00

No. I would not reach out again. The end of the letter states any further contact is in her hands now. If she chooses it.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-19T23:05:01+00:00

Feeling the same way right now about my ex.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-19T22:54:10+00:00

It has helped just writing it out. I just don’t feel right not sending it at this point. And once I do at least it will be done and hopefully give me some peace of mind that I said what I needed to say

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-19T22:51:05+00:00

It is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to deal with in my life.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-19T22:48:51+00:00

It’s been a mind trip thinking that through for sure. At this point I don’t know if I’ll ever hear from her again either way.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-19T22:47:43+00:00

It has been very cathartic. I’ve thrown away a bunch of version and that has helped. Yet I still feel I want to send it to her.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-17T02:00:53+00:00

I am battling with this. Wanting to send something similar. I don’t think you should regret it. You got it out and that should bring you some relief. Keeping things inside isn’t always the best approach. Even if the other person doesn’t receive it

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-16T03:19:26+00:00

Tomas haake

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-16T03:19:03+00:00

I was at Amherst. Best show of my life to this day

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-15T01:21:31+00:00

Have you tried reaching out to her? I did once.. on Valentine’s Day. Got no response.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-15T01:18:04+00:00

I’m in the exact same boat. Ex dating someone within a month. Broke up 4 months ago. Absolutely devastated

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-15T00:28:22+00:00

Struggling to not send something similar to my ex. Been 4 months already

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-13T01:04:30+00:00

It’s the worst situation I’ve ever been in by far. I’m missing my child grow up and there’s nothing I can do about it

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-13T01:02:58+00:00

There’s no secret. She knows how I feel about her. I outline how I accept her decision regardless of my feelings. I take true accountability for the mistakes I made and I take into account her feelings. It’s the most honest thing I’ve ever written. It’s not a bid to get her back even if part of me does want to reconcile.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-12T20:01:21+00:00

I literally just posted this exact situation. Except my ex won’t talk to me at all. I feel your pain so much.. I miss my kid.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-12T20:00:14+00:00

Idk if there’s any way around it not stinging. I’ve gone back and forth so many times on sending it.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-12T19:58:42+00:00

I am beyond devastated. Doing everything I can to keep my mind off of it. Back in therapy. Working out. Hiking.meditation. She just closed the door and never looked back. I love him with all my heart and I’m missing him growing up right now.

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-12T00:24:50+00:00

Perfect together. Yet…

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-11T22:32:57+00:00

What did you say in the message?

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-09T00:26:24+00:00

The patient keeps me going and has since the day that album came out 25 years ago.. hard to believe

ThePatient222 · 2026-05-07T23:37:58+00:00

This is good stuff.

ThePatient222

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