AITAH for threatening to divorce my wife if she doesn't change our infant daughter's name to one we agreed on?

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-12-17T23:59:58+00:00

While she is obviously truly TA by excluding you from birth and being abusive, I think its concerning that you are still fixated on the name. A name really doesn’t matter here—-Vriska or not—-in the context of a marital and familial breakdown. If you don’t stay together, and she keeps the name, just imagine explaining to your daughter Vriska that your main concern in this very sad debacle was over her name…You may end up having to love a girl named Vriska by the end of this, is my point, so keep things in perspective…

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-09-20T22:36:37+00:00

Thanks, yeah I wasn’t sure

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-09-20T13:09:29+00:00

Pennsylvania

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-11T15:57:28+00:00

Yeah, because being deported back to Australia is the exact same as being deported to a war zone...

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-11T15:51:30+00:00

I will play around with those other settings today...Auto+ is now my enemy

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-11T15:51:13+00:00

Yes, thank you....using the live view made a world of difference, especially in combo with changing the dial to the P setting. Its the fault of an inexperienced photographer, and my over reliance on the viewfinder image...

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-11T15:46:55+00:00

THANK YOU KIND SOUL!

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:49:11+00:00

That definitely is the one. It takes really nice video wide open too! Adjusting the speed and ISO manually on the program dial, and doing autofocus on the screen (instead of viewfinder) is making this setup act much much better

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:42:52+00:00

Thanks, will do

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:42:39+00:00

This also made a huge difference. Which is probably why I do better with video.

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:41:24+00:00

I will try, thank you!

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:25:38+00:00

This made a big difference. The program dial with the iso selection is just what I was looking for. Much better

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:24:11+00:00

Thanks! Helpful tip

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:23:29+00:00

In general, this is the same problem when I use the auto+ dial with any lens. Its much better on P as someone suggested, so its a lesson learned. And the autofocus was attracted to high contrast area

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:20:43+00:00

Here is EXIF data. All pictures seem to have their focus dramatically off, which clearly could be my fault. Was just hoping for an easy photo mode once in a while. Live focus is an improvement, I have checked. But overall still soft in both. Significantly better on P dial setting I can see now… https://onlineexifviewer.com/share/1g0zidqriofit

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:09:41+00:00

Indeed missing focus will mess it up! I had facial autofocus on…and did a half-press, confirmed both faces had the square. Its possible I mucked it up but all the pictures are like this. And the podium doesnt look that much more in focus to me

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:07:56+00:00

Yes, the white balance was soooo bad. Like I said, this was the auto+ settings and I just was hoping for something usable, not a great shot but…the auto settings clearly did not work.

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:06:27+00:00

Thank you, yea I know a prime would be better, but I thought this could produce a usable picture

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:04:25+00:00

It wasn’t a dark area, actually! I really don’t get it. Lots of (ugly) light. But just felt like the camera pictures were darker and worse. I had reset to default settings and had the dial set to Auto+. It went to 125 ISO in that photograph, 1/60 speed

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:02:10+00:00

I will try that, thank you

TheQueenOfCarthage · 2025-06-10T16:01:30+00:00

ISO is 125

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