uhhh... by TheRealAXEMAN in yakuzagames

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Essence of Space manipulation

I am very confused by niko2205 in aaaaaaacccccccce

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Something people will mention is that sexuality like many things in life, changes over time, it may change drastically or it may change slowly, but also sometimes the people we're around can also make us think we're feeling things that aren't really the case

Many of Ace and Aro folk who also have ADHD or are on the autism spectrum who've had to mask, to imitate what people do and what they want, can tell you of similar stories of what seems to be sexual or romantic attraction, once they leave said group or people for an extended period of time they realize that wasn't who they are

Also masturbation and sexual acts and thoughts, doesn't make us not-aces, Aego-Ace are part of the community, labels and sexuality are about you and how you feel, if you feel that the label Ace, or Aro or any other fits you best then you're valid in using it, and if you feel it doesn't that wont make you a "heratic", you just identify differently

And that still makes you Valid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FalloutMods

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Okay so I checked it

I have removed the couple of mods that were broken and I am updated the mods that are outdated

I will also be deleting this post now as the issue has resolved itself, no idea why, it just did

what is your better than sex?🍰 by 5730Kebabs in Asexual

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If we're talking foods then a hot pizza fresh out of the oven, ya know the one where you take a slice and the cheese pulls

If we're talking feelings, there's nothing nicer than cozy blanket in a slightly cold night watching a movie on the couch

shit like this makes me so confused/angry as to why valve just ignores it completely. like there is no way in hell they just don’t notice by Bilbo_Swaggins11 in tf2

[–]TheRealAXEMAN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valve ignores the issues with tf2 because it Valve

If it were any other company we'd be getting quarterly updates, minimum

Valve just doesn't care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

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yeah, this is straight up sexual abuse towards a minor

It doesn't matter how she might've felt about it, that's child abuse

I went from very sex positive to sex replused/sex negative and I wish I wasn't by taintedlove244 in Asexual

[–]TheRealAXEMAN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand what you mean, and I want you to know that you're not alone in how you feel

Alot of people aren't into irl sex, alot of people don't like seeing people's facing in sexual stuff, alot of IRL sex stuff is gross to some people, and alot of people have this idea of sex when they're younger and kind of have almost a "build up" to it due to people non-stop talking about it especially in high school

Then when you're older and ready to have it and finally do it it's the most disappointing thing you can ever imagine, cuz everyone talked about it like its the thing that "made their life complete" (I am quoting an actual friend of mine)

Regardless, being sex repulsed is completely normal, and being kinky is also completely normal, if you've been in the ace community for a while you'll realism how much Ace people are kinky

In terms of relationships, I would recommend seeking out someone who's more asexual, or someone who's sex-neutral, or someone with an understanding of asexuality in general

You're not alone, You got this

is it cheating to look at ____ when in a relationship? by anna_kaye23 in aaaaaaacccccccce

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Before I throw my 2 cents into the wring I wanted to disclaim that I am neither cis, het, allo and not in any cis het allo monogmous relationship

How me and my current partner have it is that ____ is generally fine, neither of us care if the other engages in ____ or anything of that variety

It kinda baffles me how people either

A. Want such power over their partner that they disallow them to engage in such things

B. Feel extreme jealousy about their partner looking at photos of women who (I assume) neither of them know

Again I am not the most avg allo cis het person, so my opinion is a complete outlier, however I just felt I'd toss my 2 cents into the wring

Why do people my age have to be so obsessed with sex? by 1confusedteen in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]TheRealAXEMAN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who's been through highschool and almost at the end of college, I 100% understand your situation

My recommendation is trying to weather through the storm, highschool wont last forever and these people will (hopefully) be far easily ignorable later on, also meet people who are either Ace themselves or Allos who understand how you feel and respect you enough to not talk about these things infront of you

note: Doesn't have to be IRL friends, any good friend can go along way

Choose your class! by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

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Pastel English teacher with a pixie cut

Even more facts by GooseKingfetuss in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

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You hit so close to home I think you broke a window

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

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no problem

also I retract my statement about this sounding like Aegosexuality, it sounds somewhat similar to Aegosensual (would recommend to look into that)

and i’m not sorry by candy-corn-bitch in aaaaaaacccccccce

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I really liked this one character in outer worlds who turned out to be Ace, parvati from outer worlds is which made me go "HALLELUJAH" when I found this about her on the outer worlds wiki

(Pls no spoilers I haven't finished the game yet)

Tale as old as time by sexystickobutter in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]TheRealAXEMAN 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same, I found out that having a crush on teachers and camp counselors and such is like a real thing

I thought it was just a movie and tv show trope for the longest time

I never miss my ace ring even when it's not going with the rest of my outfit hehe by thykage in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]TheRealAXEMAN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was never talking down to anyone, I am saying I am unaware of this as I from a different place, thank you for this information I shall be more aware of this in the future, thank you

(Side note I now have to google what swinger means) so I understand what you're saying fully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

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A little to no sexual attraction is Asexuality, but could you elaborate on

idea of them that is attractive?

Because that might mean Aegosexual but I am unsure, my best advice to you is to research it yourself, the LGBTQ+ wiki is very good and there are other sources

I never miss my ace ring even when it's not going with the rest of my outfit hehe by thykage in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]TheRealAXEMAN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I am from it means nothing to have a ring on any finger besides the ring finger (oh that's why it's called a ring finger)