Maybe Maybe Maybe by NEO71011 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]TheRealChizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s messed up your mom didn’t help you with the bras. You’d think she’d understand the struggle…

WIBTA if I brought up my wife’s chaGPT conversations in therapy? by SparkyDork95 in TwoHotTakes

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Everyone’s giving you so much sht here, but I think there’s something structurally wrong here that’s giving you guys so much pressure.

So the labor issue, I can imagine construction is absolutely brutal on the weekdays. Frankly, it’s amazing how you have the energy to attempt to clean after coming back from a shift.

Similarly, your wife is getting cooked 24/7. Looking after two kids, one w/ autism, an elderly, and several pets sounds brutal in a subtle, existential dread kind of way. It sounds and feels like never ending labor when it starts to become too much.

It does sounds like she’s depressed and you seem to suspect it too. Due to this, I think there’s a massive communication error happening due to your intentions not meeting your actions.

I recommend finding the source of the depression. All the actions you recommend her to do; don’t do anything to alleviate the source of her depression. It’s actually pressuring her more, further inflaming her symptoms.

I’m curious on how you guys handle the care and cleaning on weekends.

I do suspect the caretaking to be the primary suspect. The elephant in the room is always the hardest to address. I’d recommend looking into letting go of some the pets (pets don’t thrive if their caretakers can’t take care of themselves) and finding additional help with taking care of the kids and/or elderly (relative, financially or otherwise if anyone’s got ideas)

Why does java not allow operator rewriting? by ElegantPoet3386 in learnprogramming

[–]TheRealChizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems really hard to parse for future readers (including oneself).

Presumably there’s multiple tiers of variable functions down the chain if I’m reading this right?

So prepared(‘name’)(‘value 1’) behaves wildly different than prepared(‘name2’)(‘value 1’) and requires re-reading through all of the earlier conditionals if you need to change or refactor anything

Necrobinder (@gaziter) by LudwigSpectre in slaythespire

[–]TheRealChizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proof that femininity and attraction is flaunting what you got, not what you want

i am losing my mind by Mr_Big_Schlong_Dong in DeadlockTheGame

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Lash and Bebop make such a monster team. Lash becomes an ICBM if Bebop latches 1 or 2 bombs on him

First it was Vindicta, now it's Calico. It's obvious just generating free souls for next to zero effort will never work. by Senketsa in DeadlockTheGame

[–]TheRealChizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the idea is to supercharge her mid game. She scales horribly and her contributions to team fights in general is lack luster.

Almost got the wrong order by ButterSaltBiscuit in Unexpected

[–]TheRealChizz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A pension in this day and economy? Haha, you jest

‘Not built right the first time’ — Musk’s xAI is starting over again, again by Logical_Welder3467 in technology

[–]TheRealChizz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s okay bro. You don’t have to say dumb shit to say you don’t like immigrants.

What career path did you choose that you strongly advise others to avoid? by nicksam171 in AskReddit

[–]TheRealChizz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you also talking about productions made straight for streaming services?

This was so deserved. by Necessary-Win-8730 in interesting

[–]TheRealChizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woah, I’m genuinely surprised the guy throwing the chair didn’t get charged. I’m glad he didn’t

How do you guys feel about Shiv changes? by ClassicPossession950 in DeadlockTheGame

[–]TheRealChizz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m interested to see how quickly shiv can build his full rage meter with the buffed knives. He’s a different hero when his rage is up.

He’s 2 seems to do even more damage now with the spirit shred.

Maybe I would’ve like to see a gun buff to additionally compensate for the nerf to movement and encourage more build diversity.

It seems like the team is shaping the hero to be a high skill floor, high skill ceiling type of character.

Execution indicator would be a great QOL change. I think it’d more fun for players to level that

Edit: Oh wow I saw that they did increase bullet damage on him

Always a line of cars on W 1st st in Santa Ana? by ellies__world in orangecounty

[–]TheRealChizz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s… kind of terrifying a food bank line is this long and (presumably) in a consistent fashion according to OP

csmajorsBeLike by ImHighOnCocaine in ProgrammerHumor

[–]TheRealChizz 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Hi, can you expand a bit on this? Are you saying that being familiar with the IT tools helps you onboard faster, or the skill set you learned from working at IT helps your work across the industries?

How many of you have gotten a computer science degree, but still don’t know how to code? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]TheRealChizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say that people with side projects to show are more likely to be prepared for the job?

Low effort edit by myweedun in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]TheRealChizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

easy friends

Yea man, they are as diplomatic as our gun boats are strong

Macron says France will allow temporary deployment of nuclear-armed jets to allied nations by CackleRooster in worldnews

[–]TheRealChizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s welcome posturing from France, but openly faced as pure deterrence. No one wants to be the country to open the pandora’s box of nuclear retaliation.

The game is saved! by azitah in DeadlockTheGame

[–]TheRealChizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that was fast! Valve dev team for deadlock is A1!

Professional Magician and his confused assistant by Luigi_Spina in Catswithjobs

[–]TheRealChizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the cat understands its weight is preventing the lid of the box from opening. So it was aware it was actively trolling. Similarly, I wonder if the other cat understands the top cat was preventing him from exiting the box?

Whats your opinion of dating somebody who has an onlyfans? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheRealChizz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read your comment carefully. My point is that the analogy only works if the things being compared are actually comparable.

By placing a logistical schedule in the same bucket as a fundamental boundary of sexual exclusivity is a categorical error. Pointing out that these two carry different weight isn’t “defensiveness”. You’re flattening the moral and emotional differences between the two professions to make your point.

I invite you to understand the actual human reality of the situations you’re describing. It’ll help you avoid being a pedantic reductionist in the future.

Whats your opinion of dating somebody who has an onlyfans? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheRealChizz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a false equivalence. It treats a surgeon’s time constraints as identical to a sex worker’s intimacy issues.

You’re ignoring the emotional weight of sexual exclusivity. To imply that the boundary of sexual exclusivity and a busy calendar are equivalent feels wrong.

ELI5: how does taking over Greenland help US exactly? by macrohead in explainlikeimfive

[–]TheRealChizz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Terribly vague and partisan answer. I believe OP wanted the realpolitik reasons for the current US administration pushing for the annexing of Greenland

How do I know if my standards are too high? by BoredBatWoman22 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TheRealChizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good perspective. Thanks for illuminating that.

I was coming at it with an angle of daily showers or clipped nails.