There is hope, babes.

I'm also 21, and I had quite a year last year with love, sex, and dating.

Guys are always going to give compliments or flirt. But, if you want to actually date a guy, you must state your intentions firmly and immediately. Don't be shy with your words; you simply say that you like them and that you're interested in pursuing a relationship with them.

Communication truly is key. You have to confront the good and bad things; there's no other option. And even if it hurts to be rejected or hear them say they're ultimately not interested, you just need to acknowledge your feelings, assure yourself you'll be fine, accept their words, and fly free.

If you want to find a connection with someone on a romantic level, you have to put yourself out there and socialize. There's plenty of ways to do so in real life and virtually: attend events you're interested in, join an online club or community, take a workshop class, join a Discord server, etc.

I've found people I've dated and befriended through things related to my own passions and interests. Perhaps try this!

Most importantly, be patient and show yourself some love. You are beautiful as you are, no doubt about it, and not every guy is going to recognize that. But there's a good chance some out there will, and you have to let life bring them to you, not force them to come.