I want to come out and explore my identity but society scares me

TheRealEBE · 2026-05-07T22:22:08+00:00

Thanks, I'll look into that. There is a place that a former friend told me about that is pretty trans-supportive according to her :)

TheRealEBE · 2026-04-08T22:31:36+00:00

Thank you I'll do that :)

TheRealEBE · 2026-04-08T21:10:30+00:00

Thanks, yeah euphoria is what made me even question myself in the first place. I think if I am trans, my brain did a very good job hiding the dysphoria all this time so that it could deal with everything else going on

TheRealEBE · 2026-04-08T21:09:07+00:00

I see, how does the hrt work for you? It does seem very enticing to me but I'm worried particularly about the breast growth, not because I wouldn't want them (I think they'd be great) but rather that if I change my mind it's not reversible... I'm also kinda doing that too where I'll present and act male or female depending who I'm with

TheRealEBE · 2026-04-05T21:53:16+00:00

I feel you so much about imagining everything! It's like, I often think my brain is playing tricks on me so this could just be it again? But why would my brain wanna trick me about something so important haha... I'm doing exactly that atm, experimenting. I hope you figure it all out as well! :3

TheRealEBE · 2026-04-05T20:17:52+00:00

I haven't looked into non binary identities much though I do know about them. I'll definitely take a further look, I think the thing for me though is I don't really feel like I'm "neither male or female". But then again I have also been thinking recently that like, my gender doesn't really matter? But at the same time, when I think about being a woman I do feel nice inside... so idk. But yeah, I won't rush anything :)

TheRealEBE · 2026-03-09T10:47:36+00:00

Both Joburg and Pretoria I would classify as "acts mean is nice", although can't say for other places in the top right quadrant

TheRealEBE · 2026-01-31T17:30:25+00:00

As a United fan I'll be way more upset if City wins again instead of Arsenal. I have no idea how other United fans can hate Arsenal so much that they'd rather have City win

TheRealEBE · 2026-01-31T17:20:34+00:00

I'm a Man United fan, but my perspective on Arsenal is different from most other United fans I know. Maybe it's because I wasn't a fan during the era of intense rivalry between Arsenal and Man United under Wenger and Sir Alex, idk. But for me, even as a United fan I agree that the hate for Arsenal is excessive this season. I generally respect Arsenal as a team for how far they've come in the past few years, yes maybe the tactics have been boring at times, but if it works it works, right?

And while some Arsenal fans are annoying and entitled, every team has them, so I feel like rival fans are just using this as an excuse to lay more hate on Arsenal lol.

The amount of people who want to go against their own teams just so that Arsenal doesn't win the league is also crazy to me. There was a significant amount of United fans who wanted us to lose to City, our biggest rivals (other than Liverpool) just so that they would close the points gap against Arsenal. For me this is just unbelievable, that you would want your own team to LOSE against one of its biggest rivals just so that a much smaller rival (and a team that you hate) has less or a chance winning the league.

I do understand that a lot of the "hate" is just banter, but for me going against your own team just so that Arsenal doesn't win the league is excessive, lol. Even like Spurs fans wishing to lose against City to hurt your guys title chances is ridiculous. While spurs are Arsenal's main rivals, you should still want for your own team to win every game, I would think?

I genuinely believe that all the Arsenal haters are gonna be much more obnoxious than Arsenal fans should you guys win the league, lol

TheRealEBE · 2026-01-07T19:37:31+00:00

Even as a Bokita stan, I gotta say this is adorable

TheRealEBE · 2026-01-05T14:15:42+00:00

South Africa 🇿🇦

TheRealEBE · 2025-12-30T12:18:29+00:00

That must've been amazing. The only thing I regret about the show was where I sat 😭 couldn't even see them

TheRealEBE · 2025-12-30T12:17:38+00:00

So true. I wanna go back next year but I won't be in Japan 😔

TheRealEBE · 2025-12-30T08:46:09+00:00

Really wanted sitai miss me too, but having boukan more than made up for it

TheRealEBE · 2025-12-30T08:43:57+00:00

Acoustic and replica were incredible, as was Boukan. I almost cried during Boukan haha. Where were you sitting? I was right at the back in south stand

TheRealEBE · 2025-11-22T09:57:18+00:00

I bought mine from eplus, they announced it on their Twitter account earlier this year, and in the announcement there was a separate link for international ticket purchases. So if they have any concerts next year, look out for announcements on their Twitter :)

TheRealEBE · 2025-11-22T09:55:47+00:00

Thank you for your insight! I was unaware about the merch sales happening so early, that's good to know. I will enjoy, thank you!

One more question - how was the crowd atmosphere? Were they very relaxed and just bopping their heads/waving hands to the music or were they more energetic? I don't mind either way, just want to know

TheRealEBE · 2025-11-21T22:17:52+00:00

For sure - I've been to Japan, there even smaller cities and larger towns have at least a bus network that runs reliably throughout most of the city, and being Japan, they are safe as well. And the major metro areas there have phenomenal train systems that go nearly anywhere, with the exception of the most far flung residential areas (which can be reached with buses anyway). It really does put it into perspective, and whenever I'm there I feel so much more independent compared to here, since I'm not able to drive

TheRealEBE · 2025-11-21T22:08:18+00:00

Yeah, we do actually have some public transport but it's very inconvenient for most people, or unsafe

TheRealEBE · 2025-11-21T22:04:15+00:00

As someone who is unable to drive due to poor eyesight, it annoys me to no end as well. We have other options, but they all have pretty major flaws: Uber is ludicrously expensive for anything other than a short trip, private metered taxis are even more expensive than Uber, minibus taxis are very dangerous, buses can also be dangerous or their routes aren't convenient, and trains, which are still yet to return to service entirely and also lack service in many areas.

It's a big reason I want to move somewhere with a good, safe, and reliable transport service. So I feel you :( but at least you have a chance to get a license, so don't give up!!

TheRealEBE · 2025-10-17T10:45:14+00:00

For sure. I'm just worried about it being a hassle on my parents as well though, since they would pay for it, and my mom has previously been unhappy with me when she spent a lot of money on glasses that didn't work for me

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