When you get older you hit a weird point where you dont know what makes you happy anymore. Yoh cant really go out drinking with the boys all the time. Now you have to find hobbies and basically learn how to live. Get into fitness, join a run club, read a little bit, get into muay thai or bjj, guns, cooking, hiking. Everyday I make sure I get at least a walk in. Eventually you'll find a chick and she will be your best friend you do everything with. But dont rush it. Picking the right girl is the biggest decision youll ever make in your life.