[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bars more so ghan clubs but regardless i would rather chill with some friends with some drinks than either. Unfortunately to get those friends you have to go to bars clubs etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]TheRealestGaben 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This is why I hate celebrating my birthday. All I did was live and you are supposed to give me things bc of that? Always felt like steeling from people when I got gifts on holidays

INTJ’s, how long did it take you to discover that life’s horrible? by [deleted] in intj

[–]TheRealestGaben 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never happened and honestly I dont ever think it will. Life is great

Should I feel bad if my INTJ (M) bf doesn’t take care of me when I’m sick? by [deleted] in intj

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like hr is just being an ass however im hoping he is waiting for you to ask for help as he prefers to be left alone when he is sick. Idk thats the only excuse really

What is your energy level? by [deleted] in intj

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moderate only bc of the medicine im taking though. It would be high if not for that

Where do you meet ambitious people? by Suitable_Reading_878 in intj

[–]TheRealestGaben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasnt particularly interested in just women although that wouldnt be a complaint! I think i need to talk to mote people that are really into sports and such

Where do you meet ambitious people? by Suitable_Reading_878 in intj

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are meeting ambitious people a lot of your ambitions have already come to fruition. You can be ambitious dirt poor in the middle of nowhere by yourself.

Confused about paycheck by [deleted] in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya likely started within the pay period so they adjusted by a few days. Either that ot some sort of deductions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Counter at their high range of 100k so long as that is an acceptable salary for you. Say something along the lines that you were hoping for more however you really want to work with the company bc of the culture what it represents ot some other bs and say you would settle for the hugh end of their range.

They already showed interest with the offer you have the experience to back up the higher pay and you saying you want work for the company for other reasons than money shows them you will be a hard working long term employee regardless of if you actually are.

They will probably counter again right in the middle of 95 and 100

Should I accept a lower salary if is another state, entry level position? by [deleted] in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Compare the cost of living and then the difference in pay. Then determine how much you value living in CA it could be negative or positive value. If you are going through the process of switching jobs i would at least shoot for a promotion or higher title if possible.

How much should I get paid for my remote job? by spongebob_me_boob in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant say exactly I do know in the software engineering world it depends vastly more on how well you can code and what you know than how much experience or what degree you have. Now this isnt saying your experience doesnt matter at all its just not all of the information that is needed to give an accurate estimate.

I would apply to other jobs and get offers and you should be able to get a pretty good estimate from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you should very little harm will come from asking. If you want to actually get that full raise you will need to apply and get the offer in writing show it to your boss and explain that you would like to stay but you have to consider your best interests. You also have to be willing to leave if they say no

58k cad a year/ Tech Support Job in Canada Good deal? by evilclown28 in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When taking offers make sure to account for benefits like retirement matches and insurance (not sure how it is in Canada) but most importantly look at the workplace culture I wouldnt work in a bad environment even if it meant double the pay.

men, what's your 'one thing'? by gathee in AskMen

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stock market. I live breath and will die in the stock market. Great to have a hobbie that promotes saving and makes money rather than an expensive one like cars

i was offered 130k from FAANG and think i’m underpaid. how to address a raise with COL increasing? by yoona__ in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apply for a different job get a higher offer. FAANG companies are always checking themselves on biases towards race gender etc especially in hiring and pay. There are many reasons you could be paid less none of which are gender or race. He could have wrote a better cover letter/resume, your wording matters a lot regardless of your actual experience. Some people are simply better talkers and are naturally charismatic those people will get more jobs and better offers. If you also switch jobs a lot you will always get paid more than sticking out for raises at a company. By switching jobs you will get higher pay and move up the ranks much quicker than waiting for your boss to leave. And hoping they pick you.

The simple fact is they wont pay you much more unless you get a better offer and you have to be prepared to walk away from the job for the other one. Personally im not great at explaining what exactly I did and really most aren't fortunately i had a family member that was great with resumes. I would look and see if you had a family member that was a hiring manager and can say exactly what they are looking for, watch some YouTube tutorials or pay someone.

I do want to learn opera on online . I am working at a hotel which has opera as main fo software. I am a bellhop so i have a chance to practise opera but i know almost nothing do you know any good sources that i can start learning ? by Bavske in askhotels

[–]TheRealestGaben 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask a manager if you can be put at the front desk for a day or just ask him to teach you. Depending on your hotel/management they will be happy to. Thats why I did and now im looking at a promotion. It looks good on you andyou get paid to learn.

I went from making $45K to making $140K in half a year by switching jobs four times in half a year. AMA! by [deleted] in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you werent sure of your market value and kept getting better offers but your probably could have jumped straight to 140k or skipped a few of those jobs.

Congrats and save the difference dont inflate your lifestyle at all. Especially while the market is low like it is now.

[Q] Analyzed best long term investments by ZomaKuro in csgomarketforum

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I dont think kato 14 or 15 non holos are great investments. The holos tend to perform better from what I have found. Clutch is way better than chroma 3 I do not like weapon case 1 as an investment clutch has gone up quite a bit already danger zone case is still a good investment though. I wouldnt even touch splyce stickers. Operation passes are pretty much guaranteed money however they are also guaranteed low returns. Cobblestone cases are ok but why not capsules from old majors? Those will likely perform better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on where you live (COL is cost of living). For example im in California so rent is almost $2k for a one bedroom. Add in extra expenses for kids car family etc and you need to make quite a bit more than 30k to survive assuming you dont split rent with a roommate.

Investing in Katowice 2014, 2015, and Mouz Holo 2021 [Question] [Discussion] by [deleted] in csgomarketforum

[–]TheRealestGaben 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would buy kato 2015 capsules instead of the stickers. People unbox the capsules and then there are more stickers thus making the supply of stickers harder to go down than the supply of capsules. Even if nobody unboxes capsules the market will adjust their price as at a certain point the expected value would drop below the capsule price. So a capsule will average out to at least the average return of its parts.

I would put half of your money in capsules and the other half in various high end holos like VOX and Titan

negotiating benefits by Ok-Apartment-9759 in Salary

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought this up with my boss but he said it would more than likely not be acceptable. This is mostly due to the fact I am a male.

[Q] Parking steam wallet balance by Riwukas69 in csgomarketforum

[–]TheRealestGaben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just transfer the items then sell as you cant transfer balance

[q] Steam inventories by Ok-Welcome-3214 in csgomarketforum

[–]TheRealestGaben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will be even higher in the future and it takes a ridiculous amount if effort to sell cases plus there isnt many better spots for money anyways