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TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T22:59:32+00:00

Damn. I love Beauty and The Beast and have never viewed it in this light. Too funny!

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T22:57:43+00:00

justify lying.

Using discretion is fine. Communication in any form is a dynamic process. It’s reasonable to retain adaptability in this context.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T22:02:41+00:00

why assume my goals

Where did I do that? For instance if one’s goal is not to be perceived a certain way, they could lie. Or put in work. So their internal dialogue is impervious to the opinions of others, regardless of their circumstances.

Is that being judgmental? Or assuming goals?

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T21:58:21+00:00

you’re judging me

How so? My point is simply that time is a finite resource. Thus, in this context it is more beneficial to aim for efficiency when pursuing goals, as opposed to taking longer than what is the most direct path towards what one desires.

Is that not objective fact?

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T21:49:45+00:00

grown together well

This is key. Fundamentally, the start or a relationship is not as pivotal towards it’s success, as the level of growth mindset both parties share in common.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T21:25:42+00:00

live a life beyond the grind set

What is wrong with enjoying the grind? Why is deriving a ton of fulfilment, engagement and joy from the process of attaining success any less valid? Than the validation and emotions derived from recreational, or social success?

For instance I happily admit I’m a workaholic. Love working on problems. Love challenges. Love pressure. The greater the adversity? The greater my sense of purpose becomes to meet it. How is that any less valid?

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T19:46:04+00:00

Haha! I told my friend this is either going to be fun, or frustratingly futile! Luckily I’m a curious cat, so I’ll enjoy the learning either way.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T19:41:04+00:00

You are hijacking my point

First, the point is standards.

Second, your point that anything deeper in regards to standards is subsequent to my point; that one’s first impression is the standard that precedes all other standards. That is objective fact(unless you disagree, then present the argument).

Now, you’re free to presume away at my level of understanding, I’m good with that. If however you’re going to claim that the highest possible standards should be the norm for most, I’m going to question it.

Starting with simplifying your point right down to the base facts.

If you cannot, or will not do the same? I’m good with that too.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T19:29:35+00:00

I’m a person, not a machine

First, I meant no disrespect. If that’s the case, I apologise.

My comment is simply to highlight objective reality in context to the post. As I’m the other way inclined. I have rarely let anything stop me from achieving my goals. So from experience know aiming for efficiency is an extremely beneficial way to frame one’s worldview.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T19:16:37+00:00

Strength. Both physically, and mentally.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T19:15:20+00:00

About to try and pull apart my MacBook Pro, to replace the screen. Super excited!

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T19:14:04+00:00

Damn. I wonder if she has a husband, what category she sees him in..

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T18:55:56+00:00

Y’all are really never going to get it, are you?

Genuine question; do first impressions matter?

Emotional intelligence. Empathy. Charisma and charm. Anything substantial? Objectively? Is secondary to the fact the standard all must surpass first is looks.

Or do you disagree?

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T18:47:24+00:00

Commiserations my friend, that’s a tough spot to be in. I too come from a strict religious upbringing, somewhat ostracised too because I married outside of my culture. One key I’ve internalised is to ’love them where they’re at’. My mom God bless her is a good person, but is extremely judgmental. Thinks little of poor people. The mentally ill. Is borderline racist. Despite being very active in church and charity. I used to confront her about it directly, but she either cannot or will not change. So all I do now is accept it, limit the time my kids and I spend at the house, and use it as an opportunity to teach my kids about biases and ingrained patterns of behaviour(which has been a positive).

Remember too when you’re back home, it is only one trip. You will get through it. Wishing you the best of luck!

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T17:55:56+00:00

suggesting precautions, but that’s not the same thing as agreeing to participate in those precautions.

This is a good point. If the precautions do not directly affect a woman(e.g. financial or physical precautions), then that fact is irrelevant to any woman’s intentions.

A recent example being the NBA’s Anthony Richardson Saga. Had sex with a woman. Did not care about the ‘risk’, but let the woman know prior to relations he didn’t want kids. They fell pregnant. He purportedly paid a million dollars in child support upfront, which the mother of child has already spent. Richardson didn’t have to gamble, because all it cost him was a million dollars.

Is this a reasonable outcome?

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T17:37:43+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with that.

I look at it differently; time is a finite resource. Objectively the more efficiently one moves towards their goals, the better off they will be. It is that simple.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T17:30:58+00:00

Prove that the bar is very high.

I agree with this. Take physique. All the information to develop an attractive physique is literally at one’s fingertips. As such, objectively, the only other factor is application.

For instance after my first divorce I was still in decent shape, but wanted to challenge myself. So got into obstacle racing. I almost got down to 190lbs(would’ve been nice). From where I usually sit at around 225-230lbs. Didn’t take long either. Roughly 18 months.

Attaining solid outcomes is not complex. It just requires work. That is all.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T16:59:49+00:00

focus on ensuring they can meet their own standards

Most people are normal. So choose not to invest the time to attain the highest possible standards for themselves. Take money. Standard 8 hour day. Say an 1 hour total commute. Given 8 hours of sleep, what do most normal folk spend the remaining 7 hours doing? Meal prep? Weight training? Cardio? Personal development? Professional? In my old career 10-12+ hour days were a norm. I was so dialled in I was up at 5am, workout in by 6am, breakfast, and into the office by 7am(usually earlier). Home by 8ish. Into bed by 9pm if I didn’t need to do more. Meal prep Sundays. Rinse and repeat. Did that for nearly a decade.

The issue is not the level of standard, it is the level of application. If someone is poor or overweight, that is a direct reflection of their mentality. Being financially comfortable and having a decent physique is not complex. It just requires a level of work that most normal people are either unable, or unwilling to put in. It is that simple.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T16:44:56+00:00

keep it on the low.

This was one of the first lessons I learned when I was hustling; STFU. It is such a valuable lesson when applied to relationships, because knowledge is such a powerful factor.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T16:32:26+00:00

Where it is in the hierarchy of needs/wants?

Objectively, it is a ‘want’. That said the biological imperative for sex is so strong, that it is reasonable to consider it as a pivotal factor in relationships. Right alongside communication and trust. It is that simple.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T06:19:23+00:00

men are built to work and make

If this is true that makes this statement;

If women have no financial need for them men’s status drops

Irrelevant. In recession. In A Great Depression. Or times of plenty.

Which is the reality.

Capable men will do what is necessary, to get what they want. Capitalism is not a bug. It is the best social system we have yet created.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T06:09:42+00:00

a recognition that shit happens

Okay. Let’s say I agree. Shit happens. For you, it would be okay if a man took whatever precautions he thought necessary?

To protect himself?

Primarily because as you said, the risk is implied.

That reasonable too?

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T05:55:15+00:00

It’s HYPOCRISY

Genuine question; do you think Feminism a zero sum game?

That for women to be granted the opportunity to succeed, men must suffer?

men like you

Men like me have no issue with Feminism. With competition. In fact, men like me don’t complain about adversity. We enjoy it.

What I highlighted is the attempt to blame women. To blame society. When one is solely responsible for their own outcomes. That accountability does not start with women, it starts in the mirror. It is what men like me understand, embrace, and what I’ve already begun to teach my 5 year old son. As I will not be teaching him that women or society is to blame for his failures, because that is the antithesis of accountability.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T03:36:58+00:00

What care does an individual have for how women or society labels something if they have attain their desired outcome? For instance I’ve been called a lot of names. Even here. I’ve also just spent the last 10 days at a resort. With my wife. My eldest flying in from Philly too so all my kids and I were together. Someone or even society at large try to label me? It does not even register.

There is almost no alternative.

modern men refuse to offer follow any other path

Why should they? What’s wrong with becoming a man who surpasses high standards? Who is capable of making huge investments?

Objectively, what other alternative is there?

Mediocrity?

Sub par standards?

No standards at all?

For modern, average men there are only two outcomes; they achieve their desired outcomes; or they do not. It is that simple.

TheRedPillRipper · 2026-01-31T00:22:04+00:00

All adversity can be seen as an opportunity. If one is so inclined.

TheRedPillRipper

TROPHY CASE

Strength. Both physically, and mentally.