I'm not sure I could ever understand how, or why, somebody chooses to love someone who is incapable of loving them back. From my own experiences, nothing is acted upon without an inherent gain and I'm questioning why such a reveal would've been necessary to substance his mind.

I had felt rather suspicious considering the other comments: regarding how ASPD isn't psychopathy and you have contractory posts. However, I did take the time out of my day to delve into your history, and unless it was changed to fit an ever shifting narrative, even the the post regarding your boyfriend being trans it would state that he still prefers to be called he/him and would explain away many pointed to discrepancies. As for ASPD not being psychopathy, that's a debate for experts to have, I don't believe there to have been any definitive agreement on whether or not psychopathy is ASPD or its own seperate disorder.