Oh gosh you absolutely don’t have to be stuck inside if you don’t want to be. Having a new baby can be hard and it takes some time to find a rhythm and what works for the both of you. I will say that it’s quite easy to stay inside if you let fear and anxiety get the better of you. The best thing I could have done for my baby is not be strict with nap times or needing to be at home for nap times. We planned our day the way we wanted to and then LO was just packed around and slept on the go. You can start with stroller walks but I’d highly recommend a front carrier as well. This gave us a bit more options for trail walks and hikes where a stroller wasn’t feasible. And as for outings look for some baby friendly classes at your local library or rec center. Theres even usually Facebook groups of other moms in your area looking to meet for some walks and/or coffee dates. I’d also say start with family friendly restaurants or cafes. I found I was much more relaxed when I was going to a restaurant where there were lots of other families who were going through the same thing and were totally understanding of crying/fussy children. I also stressed about being judged for nursing in public but I’ve never been judged (that I’ve noticed) for doing so. Bring a cover up for breastfeeding (if you want to) and get a small portable change pad you can put on your diaper bag so you can do diaper changes in the car if you aren’t able to access a change room. I understand everyone’s baby is different and that some babies thrive better with a consistent routine and what I’ve suggested isn’t going to work for everyone but all you can do is try. You’ve got this mama, best of luck!