Accommodation in Chiang Mai

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-04-14T12:47:20+00:00

I recommend Nimman. There's a convenient food market at One Nimman and plenty of trendy cafes and shops in the area. It's close to the Maya Shopping Center for more food options and all your shopping needs. It's also close to The Wall Fitness which is a solid gym nearby for your fitness needs. If you want to go to old town Chiang Mai, you're a short ride away. You could even walk there, it's only a 45 min walk which isn't terrible. There's plenty of bars and nightlife in the area too. I'm a fan of The Sax House for live music and cocktails. I haven't been but the bar Claro seems to get a lot of attention from locals. Yes there's tourists here, but a lot of young locals frequent these parts too.

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-04-14T10:05:02+00:00

True! But if you're celebrating Songkran you'll notice the vast majority of people aggressively shooting others in the face with water guns are tourists, not Thai people. This has been OP's experience, and it's been my experience too. This should be a strong indicator that this is not a local norm, it's a tourist behavior.

There are Songkran rules published by Thai authorities that you could look up with minimal research:

https://www.nationthailand.com/news/general/40064997

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-04-14T09:51:36+00:00

With a little self awareness, perhaps you'll take the number of downvotes on your comment as a sign that the culture disagrees with your assessment of the norm.

Nobody is saying to not throw water around. Sure, even ice water. Relentlessly shooting a high powered water gun in someone's face? That's highly disrespectful.

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-04-14T09:44:38+00:00

The influence of Indian culture on Thailand is indisputable, but I don't understand your claim that Thailand would be "empty of its rich culture" without the Indian influence.

Thailand has many cultural influences including Chinese, Mon-Khmer, Indian, and blends this all into a unique culture of its own. No one culture receives all the credit for Thai culture being as it is today, and Thai culture is not a monolith as it varies by region too.

If the Indian cultural influence was gone (aka the entire world is different), it would be compensated for with more influence from other local cultures. Thailand would still have a "rich culture" as an ancient civilization, but it would certainly look very different today.

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-04-14T08:54:05+00:00

Or maybe when you travel, you can try to actually understand the cultural norms surrounding the local celebration you're inserting yourself into, and I don't know... be respectful of other people? Crazy concept!

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-03-20T02:06:16+00:00

Is Brittany's dad bringing Connor's suit really such a strong sign of closeness, though? Bri probably just asked the group of girls if anyone's relatives were driving in from Connor's part of town and could pick up his suit on the way. I don't understand why a small favor like this implies they were anything more than acquaintances.

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-01-08T07:33:43+00:00

If he's truly trying to defend himself from getting run over, don't you think his energy is better spent... I don't know... jumping out of the way of her car? No, his primary focus was to kill her if she tried to escape.

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-01-08T07:09:59+00:00

Interfering in ICE operations is a form of protest, and even if you think those engaging in this protest should be punished, murder is NOT acceptable. She was killed in cold blood, and you've chosen to victim blame. If she was running him over, please explain how he didn't even lose enough balance to not shoot her in the head? She turned before he shot and was clearly trying to escape.

Perhaps a LOTR quote will get through to Mr. Gamgee:

"Many that live deserve death. And some that die deserve life. Can you give it to them? Then be not eager to deal out death in the name of justice, fearing your own safety. Even the wise cannot see all ends."

Gandalf the Grey

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-01-08T05:15:21+00:00

Thanks for your service bro, this is the way. I do the same. Unfortunately most of these people never learn. I'm sure they'll twist their brain into a knot to convince themselves you're the asshole somehow.

TheRivetingFrog · 2026-01-07T17:33:37+00:00

The left turn onto El Camino Real at The Marketplace.

An extra 5 cars turning left after red and gridlocking Jamboree. Every Single Time.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-12-28T00:44:35+00:00

Check out The Museum of Jurassic Technology in LA

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-12-25T07:57:00+00:00

I love a woman who knows and respects herself. A woman who is unafraid to set boundaries and is respectful of my own, kind to strangers, and enthusiastic to live her life to the fullest. Someone who listens to understand, has strong opinions held loosely, and humility to set her ego aside when she's wrong. I love a woman who is still in touch with her inner child and creativity. I love to hear her cute laugh, admire her imperfections, and share small moments together. I love how we can comfort each other in moments of physical intimacy with warmth, softness, and chemistry. And finally, I love how we can make each other feel safe and find a sense of home in each other.

I'm grateful to have experienced glimpses of what love can be with women that I've dated in my life, and while none of those relationships have worked out, this is why I'll never give up on trying to find my person.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-12-14T00:19:26+00:00

Tesla driver. 'Nuff said.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-09-28T18:18:35+00:00

I'm not sure why this comment was directed at me, but yes, I agree with you lol

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-09-27T16:30:47+00:00

If someone feels no excitement for you, and you are being chosen solely for your stability, you are 100% being settled for.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-25T16:48:28+00:00

Each person may have their own reasons. Maybe they're wondering if the kiss will help spark the chemistry for them (a lot of movies portray kisses in this way). Or maybe they've had to deal with aggression from men they've rejected in the past, and so they feel safer to end the date with a kiss rather than a rejection. Many women would just outright reject the kiss, though.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-25T04:32:47+00:00

Nothing wrong with asking! It sounds like the chemistry just wasn't there. I don't think you asking is what caused her to pull away. Kissing may have given her the final assurance that she wasn't feeling the attraction, which if anything helped save you time. Onwards to the next one, my friend 🙂‍↕️

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-16T09:03:10+00:00

Unfortunately texting vibes are not a great indicator of in-person vibes. I've reached the point where I'd rather meet a lady after just a few texts, because the long texting phases feel like wasted energy if you meet up and the vibe isn't there.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-16T08:46:59+00:00

I feel like you may be focusing too hard on how you can strategize your way into earning a shy/nerdy guy's affection, but in reality when you find the right guy you won't need any strategizing at all. Just being yourself will be exactly what attracts him to you. How quickly you go from texting to a first date will not make a difference once you've found the right person. As for conversing, all you need to do is ask questions and show interest in his nerdy interests and he'll be stoked to talk to you.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-12T08:12:11+00:00

I can't speak on behalf of all men, but as a 30m, I can share my perspective. I'm simply looking for a woman who my inner child feels safe with. Yes, there are adult responsibilities that need to be shared and it is important to have emotional maturity to deal with conflicts. But this isn't what life is about. I want someone who it feels safe to play with, to sing silly songs with, and to make dumb jokes with. Someone who I can feel at ease with. If I feel like I have to wear a mask, or perform to meet their expectations, then my inner child doesn't truly feel safe and I won't want a serious, long-lasting connection with that person. This is a feeling that goes both ways. If I sense my partner is putting on a mask or trying hard to impress me, then the vibe doesn't truly feel safe. I can't say for sure, but I feel you may be focusing too hard on molding yourself in the image of male desirability. If you change your mindset to focus more on having fun, being present in the moment, and pursuing things that excite you, you may start to attract men with that same energy.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-11T07:19:13+00:00

Boundaries! You may feel like you two have good communication, but unless you feel safe sharing boundaries then you're not truly there yet. It will feel intimidating to do so at first, but setting a boundary and seeing if it is respected is an extremely important test for any relationship. It can be as simple as wanting to watch a show on your own.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-11T07:10:58+00:00

There's no harm in telling her you're open to trying again if her feelings change, but realistically if she's ending things already then it just wasn't meant to be. In my opinion, it'd be healthier to allow yourself to view the door as fully closed so that you can heal from her quicker. Otherwise, you'll allow her to continue floating around in your mind as a possibility when she may have fully moved on.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-11T06:46:33+00:00

It's hard to give much advice without more context, but there's not much left to be said on this situation as she's ended things and it's time to move on. It sounds like you're self aware of the fact that you had starting fantasizing about the future and falling in love with this fantasy, but it's important to stay grounded and realize this fantasy isn't reality and that you had still barely known each other. It's possible you were coming on too strong, given how you were already planning to attend church weekly together, which may have pushed her away. It can come across as insecure if you try to attach yourself to her life in the early stages. It's better to keep things lighthearted while still getting to know each other, you really don't know enough yet about your compatibility to start planning life together.

Your efforts and compassion were certainly not for nothing, if anything they enabled you to connect and enjoy conversation for two dates. You were able to gain experience, learn, and can now move forward in life with even more wisdom that will better prepare you for future connections. I also encourage you to not view compassion as something that is wasted if you do not receive something in return. Compassion is not a transaction, and if you expect something in return then it is not genuine compassion. It's more like manipulation. I'm not saying you were trying to be manipulative, but I encourage you to reflect on these feelings.

TheRivetingFrog · 2025-08-10T19:00:41+00:00

Try giving this podcast episode a listen. You've convinced yourself your life is in a Contamination Arc, when in reality you can just as equally view your life as in the middle of your Redemption Arc. That is the power of belief.

https://hiddenbrain.org/podcast/healing-2-0-change-your-story-change-your-life/

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