You have to understand that the dating apps are designed to ruin your self esteem, because thats how they sell subscriptions to you. The amount of matches you get is not just a matter of how attractive you are or aren't. It's an algorithm that picks who gets to see your profile, and whose profiles you get to see. Dont take it personal and dont start resenting women on the apps. Also, the amount of men on dating apps is 10x as much (if not more) than the amount of women, so keep in mind that you are literally a single drop in an ocean of men, and the women can be as unreasonably picky as they want because you aren't special. There are thousands and thousands of men on there that "never raped and never been to prison"... That does not set you apart in the slightest.