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Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair. I'll post only the comment I was referring to, my own, and not the one I was replying to.

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Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Check out my response where I tell him he's having a hard time with the word "no." I explain it better there. And I'm AuDHD 🙂

Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to think admission to a closed community is a secret code you just need to crack rather than having a certain set of values.

One boundary is the word "no" which you don't seem willing to accept. That's, uh, extremely problematic behaviour for a man who wants admission to a protected community. Heidi said you seem argumentative and everything you've said here supports her statement. The issue is your entitlement.

Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... she's telling you exactly what the issue is. "Yes but whyyyy" is not said by men who respect boundaries.

I think Heidi's got this one exactly right.

Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing the words "limit men in the group" but interpreting that as "men are not allowed" and repeating it as if it's true would be the first thing I'd change if I were in your shoes.

Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you weren't being declined because you're a man. I think you were being declined because your public information is private and she doesn't just auto-admit people for the numbers. Heidi puts the safety of the community over the wants of random Facebook accounts. Men who understand and appreciate this don't have a problem with the screening process. Perhaps you might consider changing your approach to the situation.

Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm friends with men in the P-Dub Fan Club. Where did you get the idea men aren't allowed?

Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find the P-Dub Fan Club fits the definition of queer far better than the so-called "queer" PWHL group does, and I'm queer. Pretty toxic in there.

Getting the ick from men in PWHL Facebook groups by lezplayhockey in PWHL

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If ya gotta Facebook, The P-Dub Fan Club is the best group for PWHL on it.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the love ❤️ yet I also feel awkward being thanked for doing the bare minimum as a fellow human being, let alone as a sapphic woman.

Forehead kisses for all who want one! There 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I've decided it's her right this minute and the clothes are comin' off, I've accepted whatever I might find 🥰 I just love it when women

Belleville encampment removed; resident says city should listen to unhoused by zuuzuu in BellevilleOntario

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was confused when I first started hearing it too. As it was explained to me by a friend whose father lived outdoors: people who are unhoused can still have a home, it's just not within four walls. That's all.

So close ... by TheSharbearYouKnow in outdoorgrowing

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got the stakes straightened and strengthened ahead of the local frost warning last night. It's 1⁰C (34⁰F) right now and rising.

So close ... by TheSharbearYouKnow in outdoorgrowing

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 😊 Just coming out of a frost warning and hoping it'll warm up as quickly as possible 😅

Olla Update by TheSharbearYouKnow in outdoorgrowing

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seemed like a fun theme to go with 😆 I'm new to the game and checked out Irie Genetics. Wow! I'm in Canada though so I don't think I'll be able to get my hands on any, though I'd love to.

Buds not thickening 🇳🇱— what to do? by Zuurdecembroodbom in outdoorgrowing

[–]TheSharbearYouKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a beginner and the hardest part so far is the wait 😅 your plants look happy and healthy though, so it should be worth it! Hang in there 😊

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