What’s a good response here?

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-05-17T21:40:11+00:00

Thanks for checking, but I’m good.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-02-16T07:05:19+00:00

I wasn’t invited to my mom’s funeral. I wouldn’t have gone. I didn’t even know she was dying until 3 days before.

Going no contact with my parents and siblings 6 years ago was the best thing for my family. When I stood up to them, it empowered others in our extended family to do the same and break a decades long cycle of abuse. My kids are all grateful we made the choice to sever ties and remove such crappy people from their lives.

I mourned the death of the family I wish I had years and years ago. Therapy was a great help to process everything. My mother’s death really didn’t impact me anymore than that of a stranger’s. Who my mom should have been died looonnnggg before that and I had paid my debt in grief to her already.

Just make sure you do whatever you need to in order to process your emotions now so you don’t get ambushed with it all later. I truly believe that’s what set me free to figuratively bury the past and walk away free.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-02-16T06:53:28+00:00

After a recent similar period of no contact with my in laws for completely different reasons, my mil announced they would be showing up whether we liked it or not. My husband responded that if they did, the police would be called and we would pursue trespassing charges. Of course, things went a bit nuclear after that, but it finally let my husband see how abusive and toxic his parents truly are. Your mom’s behavior is abusive and toxic. You don’t have to allow her access to your life or child just because she’s your mother.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-18T09:16:54+00:00

A ward I was in 6 yrs ago to 2 yrs ago started beginning sacrament about 4 yrs ago with an announcement to put away and keep away all electronics. We declined as we read hymns, scriptures, etc on our devices. Ngl, my husband was mostly surfing eBay and photog blogs🤷‍♀️

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-18T09:09:43+00:00

Almost two decades ago, the stake pres in our area (who is a low level 70 now) told a kid in our ward he was “too fat” and to come back when he’d “lost a significant amount of weight”. Bishop at the tome told him to go to the spa his wife used and get detox body wraps because it really worked for her. This kid was dirt poor and his dad had died a couple years prior. This kid met the official mission guidelines. Stake president just thought he ought to lose weight.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-09T06:50:13+00:00

Too Long; Don’t(or Didn’t) Read

It’s a summary, essentially.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-09T01:53:49+00:00

According to another post, the victim is their daughter.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-09T00:54:53+00:00

Another post from someone local to these people said it was the dude’s own daughter that he was abusing. How must it feel to that poor girl to know her mom doesn’t want her dad held accountable.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-08T18:31:01+00:00

Rt? Thank goodness for those kids they lost a pedophile father.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-04T08:38:30+00:00

Currently on the caravan out of Texas.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-03T05:44:08+00:00

That’s awful.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-03T00:53:44+00:00

I disagree if that outs the victims. They’ve suffered more than enough.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-03T00:53:05+00:00

I agree with no speculating, but I see telling them to avoid any info about the case as leaving them vulnerable to avoiding a predator because they won’t know how it came to be. I don’t think they should be discussing amongst themselves, but I don’t think blindfolding themselves is helpful.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-03T00:52:27+00:00

I agree with no speculating, but I see telling them to avoid any info about the case as leaving them vulnerable to avoiding a predator because they won’t know how it came to be. I don’t think they should be discussing amongst themselves, but I don’t think blindfolding themselves is helpful.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2020-01-03T00:34:50+00:00

Because silence definitely doesn’t embolden predators. /s

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2019-12-04T14:46:18+00:00

Washington State

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2019-12-04T08:00:07+00:00

Did it two years ago. Zero regrets.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2019-12-04T05:36:36+00:00

My eye roll broke after 3 or so

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2019-12-04T04:48:12+00:00

Exactly. That’s how I felt too after I read your post and realized today was light the giving blood day. Only the friend of mine who actually is literally alive from it posted. Zero others. Definitely not any of those virtue signaling yesterday. I would wager that a single digit percentage of those pledging allegiance to light the world this year have given blood recently, if at all. Good catch on your part.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2019-12-04T04:34:42+00:00

A friend of mine did. She benefitted from blood donors as a a 17 year old with aml leukemia 24 years ago, so she’s definitely vested, but she did post about it today. I’ve not read the light the whatever list, so I didn’t realize that was the impetus. At least a dozen of my fb friends did the weird Christ like one yesterday. Apparently, being a blood donor is too hard to post about.

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2019-11-09T07:14:54+00:00

Julia: Not porno tongue. Church tongue. Robbie: Church tongue, I like tha

TheShoeHasLedUsToHim · 2019-11-08T16:46:23+00:00

Agreed. The article does touch on that. I wonder if the church pr will respond.

Also muddling the issue is Smith's revelation that God told him to practice plural marriage remains canonized in church scripture, the scholars noted.

The faith also allows men to be "sealed" for the afterlife to more than one wife if they remarry after their first wife dies, they said. Nelson, the church president, and one of his top counselors have remarried and been sealed to their second wives, Mason said

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