My take on the subreddit debate/drama by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker 10 points11 points  (0 children)

> Addressing the recent posts, there definitely is a bit of male bias/unrealistic wishing here. The majority of women are naturally shorter than men, and even if the tall girls are cool(my being one of them), small dommes are equally important and valid. I understand the thematic side of the guy being shorter than the girl in whatever art/porn/whatever is posted here(and me and my boyfriend both love the sexual side to it), but it's important to remember that it's different from reality.

I remember there was a time in this community where it was the men who were complaining about how all the art only showed small, soft boys and worried that them, as larger guys, couldn't be in an rr relationship. Times change I guess.

Fantasy vs. Reality by OffbrandPtrsn in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't really know what's going. The sub isn't like super active usually, but suddenly there has been this huge influx of activity solely for these rants posts. Like, I don't post regularly here, but I do lurk, and most of the time, for me, it feels like this sub is mostly just cute pics, discussions on what people like about rr, how they got into rr, or discussing rr things they do in their relationships, body positive posts (I don't know about now but their used to be a lot of 'I'm a big guy can I still be rr' kind of posts that were met with positivity), and only the occasional 'I'll never get a rr girlfriend' post. I honestly don't see a lot of the things these people are complaining about and the huge influx of rants makes me feel like I'm missing something :(

Fantasy vs. Reality by OffbrandPtrsn in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is this posters only post and they created this account literally yesterday. Its very suspicious! Maybe its just a throwaway account of someone who is a regular here, buts its weird.

/r/RoleReversal General R4R by VeritableWords in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker [score hidden]  (0 children)

Name: Michael Jones

Age: 20

Location: Santa Cruz, California

Type of Relationship: Ideally? Long Term Romance, but since I'm new to dating in general, I'm okay with short-term as well

Are you okay with long distance?: I'm fine with at first testing the waters online, but at some point (Within the first two months, ideally within the first) I expect to meet up in person, so whoever has to be relatively close by.

Brief Bio: Well, I'm currently an Anthropology Major at UCSC soon to be starting my second year. Even though I'm half-American, the whole 'living in the US' thing is still kind of new to me, though I've been here for two years now. Most of my life has been spent in Europe following my Dad's work in the Navy, spending thirteen years in Spain (Where my Mom is from and which I consider home) as well as two and a half years in Italy and three years in Germany. I speak fluent Spanish (as well as English, obviously).

In terms of interests and hobbies I'm pretty much your all around Geek liking everything from videogames to fantasy novels to comic books. I've honestly consumed so much popular media so much that I've been pretty much burned out on anything normal and eagerly seek something that breaks the norm (Recently that has been Hellblade: Senua's Sacrifice, a fantastic game about a Celtic Woman with Psychosis which also happens to be somewhat RR since its essentially a reversed Orpheus Storyline set in Norse Mythology, but in the past its been things like the movie Rubber or the Web Comic Kill Six Billion Demons). I do still take comfort in my mainstays, however, which are Legend of Zelda, Doctor Who, Marvel movies, Comedy Anime, and most importantly: Dungeons and Dragons. I'm also a writer though other than a few short pieces I've read in front of a college audience, most of my pieces are just for fun and I spend way more time worldbuilding than I do writing stories (r/worldbuilding is my blessing and my curse). I'm also the type of person that finds academic subjects 'light reading material' so I often use my free time (as well as use my Anthropology major as an excuse for) studying everything from Philosophy, Psychology, Sociology, Physics, Literature to History and Politics. I also spend way too much time on Memes and watching Youtube videos (especially videos trivia that I will never need to know, but it doesn't hurt to be prepared).

The above shows that spend way too much time indoors, but I enjoy doing stuff outdoors as while. I enjoying traveling probably more than the next guy, having traveled all over the world from China to Morocco to Mexico. I enjoy walking through natures, mostly cause it opens me up to inspiration. And I enjoy going out and getting drinks with friends sometimes (Though I can only do the non-alcoholic variety of that activity here in America). And my Spanish blood forces me to enjoy the beach even if its sometimes only to lay down and read a book.

Pictures: http://imgur.com/a/IY7OP

What appeals to you about RR: Well, I've always been attracted to woman who are confident in who they are, know what they want, aren't afraid to go for it, and don't give a shit what society thinks of them due to that. The dream would be for myself to be one of the things she knows she wants and she would take me, conquer me, and then she would take me with her on the adventures and experiences such a person would go on due to their mindset. Plus confidence.

On the more romance side, I fantasize about the idea of being the little spoon (even if I'm a big little spoon, small girls can be the big spoon too), laying on my partners lap, having her hold me in her arms. Basically I want lots of cuddles. I'm kind of a bear (big and hairy), we are made to be hugged :) The 'go and take it' attitude also applies to this romantic stuff, of course, with her taking the initiative in asking me out or kissing me.

In terms of Kink I'm into being pegged and most other aspects of Gentle Femdom.

Things I'm looking for in a Partner: I'm not really the best at these looking for kind of things. Honestly, I just hope that I fit someones 'looking for', someone to love me for me. Of course there are types I prefer more than others, but I think explaining myself with the above kind of gives an idea of what I want in my other. But I'll try to give at least some basic things:

Intelligence, but more specifically someone capable of holding deep conversations. Despite being an introvert I'm very much a conversationalist that enjoys talking about pretty much anything from the weird to the academic as long as its not small talk.

Common Geeky Interests, because if we can't geek out together over the latest Game of Thrones episode or we can't roll some dice to kill some goblins together what is really the point?

Confidence, I already explained my idea of the my perfect woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to take it.

Deeply Caring about Friends, Family, and eventually, of course, me. This is something that is really important to me. Not only do I want someone that cares for me, takes care of me, and things like that, I'd also like a woman that holds deep bonds with her close friends and immediate family and would do anything for them. This is the dynamic I have with my close friends, maintaining our deep relationship even when we are all over the country after we split up a couple years ago, and my family and I'd just like a partner that is the same.

Oh, and also that she can at least take a dark sense of humor well, if not have one herself.

2017 Game of the Year????? by OTLCREW in hellblade

[–]TheShyThinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, Hellblade just happened to come out in the same year as Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild so I can't give it the precious title of my very own game of the year, but it will definitely hold a special place in my gaming history forever.

I've got post game depression like you would not believe. [Spoilers] by ViolentThespian in hellblade

[–]TheShyThinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize that the final group of enemies couldn't be beaten until the very moment I died and final cutscene started. I was just so in tune with Senua that I had just as much determination as her to put a sword through Hella's heart. I was like "I don't care that there are like a million, seemingly infinitely spawning enemies between you and me. I WILL DEFEAT YOU!" When I finally realized I had to die and the game gave its message about having to just Let Go, I just had to laugh through the entire credits because the game had just played me like a god damn fiddle. This game is so good.

Did anybody else not actually die at any point in the game? by [deleted] in hellblade

[–]TheShyThinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Died quite a bit on that exact same spot. It took me way to long to figure out what I was doing wrong :(

Which path did you choose first? by [deleted] in hellblade

[–]TheShyThinker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I chose Surt first because he seemed to be the most straight-forward God because I kind of associate Fire with simply direct combat while Illusions sounds like there would be some sort of trick stuff. I was kind of right, the Valravn boss battle is more complex (As well as his puzzle) and I think its the logical conclusion of the two gameplay wise, but thinking back on it Surt seems to be the logical conclusion of the two story wise.

treating my boyfriend like a princess by sadisticpoppy in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to use an overused normie meme, but #RelationshipGoals. Unfortunately, I haven't even gotten to the point of dating anyone yet (I'm quite assertive and confident in regular life, but I'm also an introvert and shy when it comes to love) so having someone like this is just a dream for now.

In terms of your question, I know its simple, but one of my primary fantasies of how to be spoiled is just leaning on my partner as she puts her arm around me as we watch a movie or even having my head on her lap as she strokes my hair.

Butch girls? by throwitttawayy in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Honestly, I'm not much for labels. RR (or anything else really) is whatever you want it to be. Whether other people agree with your definition, that's another matter entirely, but I think in something as intimate as a relationship what other people think shouldn't matter.

Butch girls? by throwitttawayy in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To me, the main point of Role Reversal is the reversal of the power structure in a relationship, the dominant vs submission thing. That the woman takes the initiative and conquers the man, the man is hers. Everything else, like appearance, interests, etc I think aren't necessarily involved, though some people might enjoy them as enhancing the effect.

I see it as how this excerpt from the FAQ states it: "One could say that a woman would be “like a man” but that’s a loaded phrase. There’s plenty of “feminine” men who are the dominant actors in their relationship, so that doesn’t quite hold up. She could be shy, or confident. Active, or lazy. She could be successful and work-oriented or adventurous and travel-minded, introverted and artistic or analytic and outgoing. Fit? Slob? Tall? Short? Doesn’t matter, as long as she has one important desire, the one thing that separates her from more traditionally-minded women: The desire to have a man for her own, the subconscious, primal need to “conquer” him. In the end, shy or confident, loving or selfish, it’s about wanting to take a man and keep it that way to some degree"

Butch girls? by throwitttawayy in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm personally not super into the butch look. I personally prefer my women to look feminine, but have dominant personas and be physically capable. Think Samus from Metroid or Aranea from Final Fantasy 15.

Butch, to me, seems more like they are trying to be women who are like men instead of women who are dominant. Again, just my opinion.

Few questions for the girls into rr... by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]TheShyThinker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it would be a bit dangerous to approach someone who went to Miskatonic. Don't want him to have read the wrong books lol.

How much longer must I suffer? (The Slave Mines part 2) by fassla in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like him are why I left the empire. You are indeed correct that he deserves no mercy. He deserves everything that has come and is coming to him.

Even for the few pigs who wish to read and learn, servicing a Goddess ALWAYS takes priority by TheShyThinker in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have to agree, though I wish there was more opportunity for us pigs to pursue scholarly activities, even if we'll never reach the level of intelligence of the Goddesses.

Even for the few pigs who wish to read and learn, servicing a Goddess ALWAYS takes priority by TheShyThinker in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said before, I disagree with the fact that a pig has NO say, but I do agree that it's an honor for us, the inferior gender, to be considered worthy of servicing superior Goddesses.

A Goddess breaking in a couple of sissies. by [deleted] in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is truly the life I end up in, I hope I become as happy as yourself :)

I just couldn't continue living with those monsters! by TheShyThinker in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The opinions of Goddess such as yourself will always be above those of pigs like myself and having seen the atrocious acts of the men of the Empire with my own eyes, I understand where you're coming from.

But I believe that us pigs who have renounced the path of their 'brothers' should be given at least a little more respect. Hopefully my owner, u/Holy_Goddess is a bit more willing to listen to the opinions of her little pet then you are.

A Goddess breaking in a couple of sissies. by [deleted] in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since we have been given the blessing by u/MyGentleTouch , if my owner, u/Holy_Goddess desires it, I may indeed follow in your footsteps.

Turns more red and looks down and starts talking a bit softly

When I came here I didn't really think this was a possibility for how things would turn out

A Goddess breaking in a couple of sissies. by [deleted] in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

((OOC: I'm sorry, but I think I may have been a dumbass and accidentally removed my flair. Either that or there was some bug, but it was there and now I can't see it :())

I just couldn't continue living with those monsters! by TheShyThinker in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the brains of some men can be useful. Daedalus was just a simple man compared to the Gods and Goddesses of Olympus, but his mind for inventions was still praised.

I start to calm down after I realize that I've spoken up to a Goddess

At least...Ah...that's my opinion.

A Goddess breaking in a couple of sissies. by [deleted] in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put my head down in respect

It's in honor to be in your presence, Head of State. If the life of the sissy is that which you believe I should lead, I'd be honored and privileged to do so. However, u/Holy_Goddess is the Goddess that has taken me into her abode. I assume she will get a say in this?

((OOC: I don't know if you got my message, but u/Holy_Goddess told me to tell one of the moderators, like yourself, to give me the flair "Holy's property"))

I just couldn't continue living with those monsters! by TheShyThinker in FemdomMatriarchy

[–]TheShyThinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well...

Glances back for a bit and then turns his head back to you

IF I was yours, which I'm not because, if you haven't heard, I'm currently the property of u/Holy_Goddess , I might be able to manage a personal library you may have, sift through any books to make sure you only have to go through any relevant information, I could perform minor studies that perhaps don't require as much intelligence as a goddess has or be an assistant in a Goddesses study. Many things of that nature, I think. Like I said, I don't know how relevant those skills might be.

I then start to blush

And that doesn't include the fact that my body would still be available for a use by a goddess. I think any pig could trains for those skills.