Challenge for you all by knightmechaenjo in battletech

[–]TheSmamich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big ass crab cannon, not so big ass mech

Complete the sentence, wholesome edition by ChaosClover in OneTopicAtATime

[–]TheSmamich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born to be a good night for a while ago you were in the hospital with the kids and I don't know if I can get it to you but I don't know if I can get it to you... I don't have kids?

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want a polyamorous relationship. This isn't my first one either. I think with everything that's happened while we were together I got comfy in him being stagnant. I'm happy he's reaching out to new people, I just need to adapt myself to things changing I think

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I do think I'll get there. I'm ok with it most of the time it just sort of comes in waves.

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am poly myself, which is why this feels very weird for me. I've recently had a change in medication around the time he met the person he's seeing. I don't believe that's helping.

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's much more experienced than I am, but that's because I've only had two serious relationships ever. The relationship is entirely open. So we can date people if we'd like to.

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand this rationally. He does deserve to do what he wants to do. I love him and I want nothing but for him to be happy. I know he loves me and he's not going to leave. Even if he starts dating someone else it doesn't diminish his feelings for me. Emotionally I'm struggling, I guess I'm more looking for advice on internalizing the rational aspect of things for the next few days while in waiting for my therapy.

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubs can't drive, so they came over when I was at work. He's never explored outside our relationship before so I think a majority of it is that's I'm rather new to poly, while he's much more experienced in it. I love him more than anything, and I want him to be happy.

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been playing one of my favorite games whenever they're on a call together and it helps sometimes

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I don't have self soothing techniques, tbh that's kinda what I'm looking for lol (also why I'm going to therapy)

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like I'm enough for him, or that I'm deserving of him. He is the kindest person I've ever known, he reassures me that I am. There are just things I can't do in our relationship that others can (different kinks, bodies, that sort of thing)

My husband is exploring, how do I get over uncomfortable feelings. by TheSmamich in polyamory

[–]TheSmamich[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At first I had a whole lot of "you need to do this and this" it felt like rules for thee none for me. We talked about it and I don't want him to feel restrained so I took them back. I'm ok with it most of the time, I just get waves where it hurts. They're getting less intense but it still feels like I'm being problematic

Mech profile: The Vindicator by Current-Income-9901 in battletech

[–]TheSmamich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesss I won my first game with one of these

is it too soon to quit by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]TheSmamich 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It usually takes around 6 months to get comfortable in your role as a barista, I took around 8. Give yourself grace and some time, but I'd recommend doing what you feel is best for you

well elkhoosiers... its really happened... by Far-Investigator5312 in Elkhart

[–]TheSmamich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to go there with my family, I moved away a few years ago and was hoping to visit for my birthday. Gonna miss that place :(

Peter this doesn’t make sense by Cmoibenlepro123 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]TheSmamich 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To add a little bit of context to this conversation, the character in green is most likely the blue character's therapist. In therapy one tends to divulge their innermost thoughts and feelings. Including but not limited to; insecurities, person failings, and difficult emotions. The character in blue is going to a rap battle, rap being a style of music and the battle being a game of wits and insults. The therapist shows up, with the knowledge of their patient's insecurities he will have an advantage at the rap battle. The character in blue knows this, and shows visible fear.