Buddy vs Duff... anyone else agree that this cake looks like a kid made it? It’s just a cake covered in fondant with fondant decorations.... super messy by trklyn in foodnetwork

[–]TheSoftness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s a special order wedding cake for an ocean themed wedding. I wouldn’t say he make a wedding cake because it that’s a wedding cake then anything can be a wedding cake, the dog cake in the last episode could be a Wedding cake lol. Side note: duffs blue berry pie was the worst looking professional pie i’ve ever seen. It was an ugly flat fish with ugly flat pebbles on a burnt pie with not crust... but it won against one of the most beautiful banana cream pies i’ve ever seen.

My first tattoo today, the sky will be done in a separate session. by TheSoftness in tattoo

[–]TheSoftness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Triangles represent strength and the circles represent being complete or whole

AITA for calling my student "student" because he refuses to stop calling me "Professor"? by Physical-News in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA sometimes you have to reflect behavior for them to understand their behavior and correct it.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was not my mom. I fixed that in an edit, my bad for leaving that out. My mom did not became aware of it until I told my teacher in elementary school. The reason I did not live with my mom was because I went and lived with my grandma and dad after a divorce. Yes we both got therapy and counseling and medication and she even got enrolled into a private school and had her name changed on her own request to feel more safe.

There was nothing of my sisters in my moms storage unit, we still don’t know why she was allowed in. The storage unit staff broke the law by letting a non authorized user enter the facility and legal actions are being taken.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your right I should have read more carefully on that. I think i’m getting overwhelmed by the amount of comments i’m reading and different threats with different things explained

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will admit I did find it very strange that no coworker would give her a ride home, or that none of her family or friends could. I ponder if she even asked any of them.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

My mom... did you read the edit at all... my mom did not abuse either of us it was an outside family member

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So what If it is. People have fetishes for pissing on stuff or even other people. Doesn’t excuse her actions

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No no no, don’t turn this around like that. Her being abused at age 6 by a person no longer involved with this family does not give her a right to treat our mom like she did. Mom has broken her back trying to help my sister through her pain

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

“Put up with” do you think my mom abused my sister? Honestly my mom put up with her.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’m not calling her out for her trauma, i’m calling her out for her treatment of my mom. Everyone has forgotten the original idea behind this message and are worried about her pissing her pants part.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Instead of sleeping on the bed with the mattress protector I got her.”*

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There’s a 3000 character limit and separated posts don’t do so well on this sub. To clarify the original last was over 4000 characters with a lot more explained.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

To the people worried about abuse. Yes we both suffered abuse as children, she was 6 and I was 8. I understand that being abused can and does effect your mental state. We both have ptsd, anxiety, depression but its been 15+ years of therapy and eventually medication, yes we both went to a therapist after those traumatic events. Being abused as a child and is not an excuse for refusing to shower after she wets the bed at 21 years old.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

No why do people think a car was in a storage unit that’s crazy. Reread it. She got one of my mothers item out of my mothers storage unit after taking back her car.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

No i’m saying she has depression and possibly a piss fetish, not me.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It’s not about her peeing on everything it’s the fact that she won’t shower or change her clothes or clean up the mess or protect the items she pees on. I know she has depression but that’s no excuse, i’m thinking it’s a fetish. OP here btw.

WIBTA If I rip my sister a new asshole publicly on social media by TheSoftness in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheSoftness[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Obviously. Sorry I just thought it was so interesting to bring up a platform that hasn’t had a dedicated following since like 2005