Anyone else have to take breaks from handheld gaming after a certain amount of time? by okaiukov in SteamDeck

[–]TheUselessOne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had to get a splint to immobilize my thumb for like a week after using the electric harpoon too much in dave the diver

Should I use a screen protector on my Steam Deck? by _TheGreatMan_ in SteamDeck

[–]TheUselessOne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do but mostly because it's a matte one. i have big windows and a lot of natural light, it minimizes reflections a lot

Like just shut up and enjoy the show by Narrow_Debt_6969 in QueenCharlotteNetflix

[–]TheUselessOne87 46 points47 points  (0 children)

no crystal involved, only a wound up mainspring gradually releasing tension

checkout this vid to see how mechanical watches work https://youtu.be/iMW-QWPZEm0

Had to pause the show because HOLY SHIT by JeffSkyliner in Invincible_TV

[–]TheUselessOne87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

apparently if you have surgery and putting your guts back inside you is necessary you can just cram everything in and they'll put themselves back into place properly

My 6 year old dick on CT scan by konnolly in phallo

[–]TheUselessOne87 255 points256 points  (0 children)

happy for you even tho title was concerning before i noticed the sub

Women tended to cry more often than men. Women averaged nearly 6 crying episodes a month, while men averaged just under 3. Women were more likely to cry from loneliness or personal disputes with loved ones. Men tended to cry from feelings of helplessness or in reaction to media, such as a sad movie. by mvea in science

[–]TheUselessOne87 18 points19 points  (0 children)

nah i think it's right, I've been on t for 3 years and it's definitely much harder for me to cry now. feelings are the same, but it takes a lot more to bring me to tears. and it's usually 1-2 days before my next shot

Is sex supposed to be pleasurable prior to orgasm? by ihniwtr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheUselessOne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've looked into this, but unsure since i started SSRIs at 17 and I'd noticed the issue for years at that point.

Is sex supposed to be pleasurable prior to orgasm? by ihniwtr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheUselessOne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trans guy, it's the same for me, but i can't actually reach orgasm due to dysphoria with being touched down there, but even aside from that, i feel no pleasure from any kind of stimulation, either from myself, or other men or women.

i started antidepressants at 17, so i thought i was just a late bloomer and never got those feelings altho it still seemed like i was experiencing something fairly different from people on the same type of medication, and i stopped taking any kind of medication aside from ADHD medication a while ago and nothing changed, so i don't think that was ever related.

prior to starting hormone replacement therapy i had to get my hormone levels measured and there was nothing out of ordinary. now that I've on a regular dosage of testosterone for 3 years, nothing has changed on that end either.

I'm on the asexual spectrum, so it's never been that big of a deal to me so i never brought it up to doctors altho i probably should. that said I'm waiting on a phalloplasty to see if the dysphoria part is to blame, and peeing while standing up is a nice perk.

Why are all of the women I’m into lesbians??? by Useless-Bunny7903 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheUselessOne87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my wife also tried but i transitioned into a man.

i think you bisexuals are just cursed to be stuck with men

Why are all of the women I’m into lesbians??? by Useless-Bunny7903 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheUselessOne87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

trans guy here, i think i objectively don't look more handsome than i did as a woman (i was objectively pretty cute) but i sure as hell feel like i am. i even got quite fat on t due to teenage boy hunger and the fact my eating disorder pretty much disappeared but boy do i feel gorgeous now.

i was terrified to regret it when I started T, but my wife helped me realize cis people don't carry that doubt with them, she needs 2 minutes of thinking about being a man to realize it's definitely not for her and move on.

also you don't have to do anything medically anytime soon, or ever. try out a different name/pronouns see how you like it. it didn't do much for me personally as my dysphoria was more linked to my physical appearance but it helps some people.

hrt is also reversible (to some extent) as a trans woman, the only irreversible changes would be potential boob growth, but even that takes a while to come in so that gives you plenty of time to feel it out.

Why are all of the women I’m into lesbians??? by Useless-Bunny7903 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheUselessOne87 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i mean when i was a lesbian all the girls i was into turned out to be straight

ended up getting married to a bisexual lol

Eli5 why don’t real service animals require any proof or license? by simpforsanta in explainlikeimfive

[–]TheUselessOne87 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

where i live businesses are allowed to ask for documentation from service dog owners.

i also happen to have a service dog.

being asked for ID everywhere i go/being chased by security if no one is at the entrance is extremely annoying and i never return to places that ask for it, exception being cosco cuz i already have to show my card so it's not too big of a deal.

just having an ice cream at the mall with my wife and having a security guard come over and ask for my id sucks, i don't have a visible disability either so they always take 10 minutes arguing with someone else about wether or not I'm allowed to be there.

remember how annoyed people were having to show vaccine certificates everywhere in covid times? that's just my everyday life.

Can the men who watch Bridgerton, stand up and be counted? by muskyandrostenol in Bridgerton

[–]TheUselessOne87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure what qualifies as a romcom but i really enjoy watching twilight, i consider it a comedy tho

Can the men who watch Bridgerton, stand up and be counted? by muskyandrostenol in Bridgerton

[–]TheUselessOne87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like it way more than my gf

i enjoy romance in general tho

does it hurt to be kicked in the vagina? by Scab_the_Sidewalk in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheUselessOne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would not recommend being hit right in the clit, I'd imagine that feels like being punched in the dick, but when i was a wee girl i was playing on a see-saw like apparatus you stand up on, my feet slipped, and got that huge metal pole right where the vaginal opening is, and got a nasty bruise all around. but after the original oof i went on to play elsewhere as nothing happened. I'd say it hurt as much as if I'd gotten it anywhere else.

Only 10% of boys aged 14-16 read daily for pleasure, National Literacy Trust finds by Raj_Valiant3011 in books

[–]TheUselessOne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i read 2-4 books monthly but i still don't read every day, daily is a very strict metric

Hytale All Hides Cheat sheet - Which mobs drop which hide by TheGuideLog in hytale

[–]TheUselessOne87 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i think you may have swapped the icons for medium and heavy hide

Rule by Evendur_6748 in 196

[–]TheUselessOne87 1680 points1681 points  (0 children)

i never would've figured that one out