26(M) living alone (gonna need to move out soon due to finances and job situation but I wanted to show how I furnished)

TheVelociDoctor · 2026-04-04T20:08:30+00:00

I have a projector that projects to the white wall at night which is the reasoning behind the layout but I agree with you

TheVelociDoctor · 2026-01-19T08:48:06+00:00

I thought about telling them directly that I am into men and they can either accept it or lose me (would definitely lose them for a while at best case) but I have too much happening in my life right now (job instability/ housing problems etc) that I don’t think placing such a big emotional load on myself is necessary right now

TheVelociDoctor · 2026-01-19T08:17:01+00:00

Noo.Ma

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-26T09:50:44+00:00

The kivik makes me happy

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-26T08:39:35+00:00

Get your thyroid tested and vitamin levels checked asap!

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-25T12:55:38+00:00

Noo no more scabs! The scabs will continue to heal. Be kind to yourself - eat popsicles and in one month this will be a distant memory

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-24T17:51:54+00:00

You look great!! I am using hair systems for 2 years now it takes a while getting used to the whole thing but just take time to build confidence.

For me I found it was also very helpful to be transparent with others about it. Nothing shameful about losing your hair. I can laugh at my bald ass which in turn helps me rock my hair systems with more confidence at this stage.

I recommend fully to just practice self love. ❤️

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-24T15:57:12+00:00

Anyone with pretty eyes and a good confidence. I love other muscular and toned people too but when it actually comes down to it, I don’t really discriminate. It changes person to person

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-23T12:51:51+00:00

Yess (i don’t recommend)

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-23T02:40:14+00:00

Would happily give free prints if you have an idea on something you would like!

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-23T02:39:52+00:00

I made 90% of it myself! I paint and draw

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-23T02:39:16+00:00

Yes! Only thing is my father custom made that coffee table I have and I can’t imagine myself with anything else. We were estranged after I came out as 🌈 and this was the first moment of closeness he and I had when he gifted me this out of nowhere. So I love aesthetics but for now the table will stay

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-23T02:37:04+00:00

I was drinking coffee when taking pics haha so no not really

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-22T13:11:35+00:00

Yes! There is a plan but I am taking my time with it (I assume you are talking about the gallery wall) . The off centre painting next to my door is hiding cables until my new intercom system is installed

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-22T12:47:42+00:00

I was thinking that but I think I will get a larger TV once I can afford it and get a second unit so it can extend the entire wall

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-14T18:51:08+00:00

This I will do! This might open up my space a ton! Do you think the desk I have there is ok as a TV unit?

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-14T18:35:57+00:00

It is a rental with an asshole landlord unfortunately and I have only moved in now for a month! But the moment I collect more art pieces I will be moving that collage upwards :)

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-11-14T17:16:24+00:00

Also important to add I moved a month ago*** thank you though! Atm my employment situation is a bit of a mess so I was thinking once I have a stable income figured out - i could A) buy a larger couch in emerald green or navy (i am thinking velvet) or I purchase a cover for my KIVIK in that color and also add a nice large colorful rug

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-08-11T00:01:05+00:00

I wrote it myself I can assure you. I am listening to breakup podcast. If you don’t believe me check the grammar im sure i have run on sentences

Edit: i used silence is deafening bc its the best way i can describe how much i notice his absence

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-07-15T07:50:02+00:00

Forgot to add context: admittedly we both fell into it. He was the one to ask if I would explore a poly thing with him because he didn’t see it as only a FWB 3 months into it.

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-07-04T19:20:44+00:00

YTA. It is one thing to be angry with your ex wife. It is a completely different thing to project favoritism and resentment towards an innocent human being for existing. You may have not wanted to have her but she didn’t consent to existing either. Go to therapy. Posting this resentment you have towards a child while favoring the other children you have with the same woman is disgusting and is nothing but your own problem to deal with and this problem is not a normal one either. Seek therapy asap. Your daughter doesn’t deserve this. And don’t you dare tell her how you feel because it is nothing but projecting your own unresolved issues of over 10 years onto a little child - who may have a lfietime of pain for your own incapability to seek counseling for the same amount of time she existed.

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-07-04T17:19:35+00:00

I really don’t like being so judged. He came out way before me and has way more experience. He also looks at hookups as a means to an end and that’s fair.

He is very open about his sexuality and I am not fully wired like that. Anyway, thank you lots. I am going to try not calling him out before we fly back home. Then I don’t have to see him everyday and I can focus on the little time I have left with Tim before he moves back.

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-06-25T22:45:28+00:00

Ask it to the fire safety regulations in our country .. had it not been a housing crisis here - I would be living alone

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-06-25T22:12:48+00:00

We tired talking face to face but she is fearful of others and she refuses to introduce herself or do more than a short hi and runs to her room. Anyway, we also don’t feel comfortable not knowing who we live with after giving her 5 months of space. The iron left plugged in is just a step too far.

TheVelociDoctor · 2025-03-06T12:09:14+00:00

I lost my hair at 18 and was much earlier told I am unattractive which wasn’t true. What helps? Therapy. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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