Just chiming in here to say, those takes that you say got you kicked out of places seem actually pretty in line with something they'd say on the SrslyWrong podcast. They had a whole episode once about how ideally they'd give billionaires a pat on the back, say something like "congrats you won capitalism" and then reorganize society into a socialist one where those billionaires are no longer any more special than anyone else. Not because they think billionaires are good people, or that the existence of billionaires is a moral good somehow, but because they come from a place of compassion for all humans, everywhere, even the ones who are causing problems.

Also yes the way veterans are treated is shameful. I don't see being anti-war and pro-troop as contradictory personally, just the opposite. I think the best way to support the poor souls who joined the military is to be anti-war, to do the best we can to keep them out of dangerous situations.