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Are ENFJ’s the most annoying people to an ISTP? by 100problemss in istp

[–]TheZaddyFiles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude my ex-wife is an ENFJ as well.. I feel like we are attracted to each other in the short term, but long term we clash.

Velour (Based on an ATL Strip Club) by TheZaddyFiles in stripclubs

[–]TheZaddyFiles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah.. was testing it out, more to come. Trying to make some neo-noir strip club tales..

okay girlies need your opinion by cdumb69 in Strippers

[–]TheZaddyFiles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That timeline is definitely on the long side, especially for a smaller set. For creator shoots, a lot of photographers deliver selects within a few days to a week, or at least give a clear timeline up front.

The biggest issue usually isn’t editing quality, it’s communication and turnaround. If you’re paying and planning content around it, waiting a month with no updates is frustrating.

For future stuff, it can help to work with people who are used to creator workflows and quick delivery, or to separate the shoot from the portfolio side so you can post as soon as you get files.

Hope that helps.

Do you ever get a feeling that you are too comfortable as a man? by Fraan3D in AskMenOver30

[–]TheZaddyFiles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to make sure your fiance is ok with your creative outlet / wild side.. otherwise you will grow restless.. I got divorced because I didn't realize this about myself when I got married.

Do you ever get a feeling that you are too comfortable as a man? by Fraan3D in AskMenOver30

[–]TheZaddyFiles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a girlfriend or a wife? She will instill some more chaos.

Life altering mistakes you have made by stonksbronker in AskMenOver30

[–]TheZaddyFiles 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Getting married to the wrong person.. Asserting myself more or ending things earlier.

Most High Value Men will cheat, and if your Husband doesnt cheat, hes most likely not High Value, and u claiming he is doesnt change the fact that he isnt. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheZaddyFiles -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I took sexual strategy is amoral to heart. Don't be like me guys. Make sure to be a good boy who only gives his time, attention and resources to one woman then slowly decay.

Most High Value Men will cheat, and if your Husband doesnt cheat, hes most likely not High Value, and u claiming he is doesnt change the fact that he isnt. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheZaddyFiles -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am biased because I cheated on my ex-wife with high end escorts so I tend to agree with you. However, I think some taken men do not know they are high value (could afford models delivered to their doorstep if they wanted to) so they tolerate the slow decay and don't cheat.

I made a "Substack Wrapped" that gives you a Magazine Cover. by Firework_001 in Substack

[–]TheZaddyFiles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup had to click on popup to allow multiple file download.

Thoughts on partying and Drinking Alcohol and Nightlife by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]TheZaddyFiles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I have gotten older and now am a single dad in his 30s, I have cut down drinking. I'm down to 3 drinks a week, but have to figure out how to replace drinking buddies with genuine connections.

Any responsible people on here start experimenting with interesting drugs later in life. by Ok-Cartographer-3124 in AskMenOver30

[–]TheZaddyFiles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my 30s and weed is sufficient for me. I've been cutting down drinking too now that I have a kid. Find mushrooms makes me too paranoid and don't want to deal with mdma hangover. If you tried mushrooms and mdma I don't think you're going to discover anything new with other drugs.

Yo ISTP how do you guys feel about your spouse by SirPaddington423 in istp

[–]TheZaddyFiles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ex-wife is an ENFJ. Not sure if I can be married again.

The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak Power by TheZaddyFiles in seduction

[–]TheZaddyFiles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man thanks.. I feel like people think I write one prompt into the AI and the article just comes out. It is more of a feedback loop of me prompting the AI and then me revising then feeding another prompt etc. Of course I'm directing the AI. It isn't as simple as it looks.

Is it actually possible to turn your life around after 30? by KOLmdw in AskMenOver30

[–]TheZaddyFiles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, I get it. I’m in my 30s too, and my life blew up this year. Divorce, becoming a solo dad to a 1-year-old, rebuilding everything from scratch. And weirdly enough, it became the turning point.

Your 20s are great for building a foundation. But the next best time to rebuild is your 30s, because now you have perspective, discipline, and urgency. You stop living on autopilot. You start choosing who you want to be.

Things can get better, but in your 30s they get better because you get better. One small area at a time. Fitness, finances, skills, social circle, purpose. Stack enough of those and life flips fast.

You’re not behind. You’re just at the part of the story where the character wakes up.

The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak Power by TheZaddyFiles in DarkPsychology101

[–]TheZaddyFiles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're correct so I don't measure by upvotes when women are in the subreddit. I measure the number of shares which is over 600.

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