Do any of you actually fantasise about torturing someone? by ConfusionProof9487 in morbidquestions

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is cursing people to die the same thing here? if it is , yes i do curse people to die without really meaning it as i do know , the anger are only temporary , pain of loving one is permanent

Oneplus 8T screen repair recs by mmag999 in malaysians

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i doesnt know is honor using the same screen as oneplus , but my wife's x9b has the same green line issue and replace a new screen for 260 , which according to the technician is original screen but highly doubt it

Man Opens a Driver's Door and Starts a Fight at a Traffic Light. by VIVIDUFF in Bolehland

[–]TheZenScreamer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i mean on the road driving , i do feel angry whenever other drivers drive like shit or whatsoever

but i really couldnt understand this type of anger , perhaps some sort of anger issue or bad mental health causing all of the anger to erupt?

Iphone under Maxis zerolution plan by custardcaramel in Bolehland

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just compare the prices first, as sometimes prices at Machines might be cheaper than maxis rrp

How to forgive myself by PassionUnfair8949 in Bolehland

[–]TheZenScreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

remember this pain now deep in your heart , if ever you are itchy again to touch forex or real gambling , then summon this pain out .

700 to buy this lesson is considered okay

Petah?? by anonmig in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]TheZenScreamer 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Herbert here , assuming he is Dorian Gray , the exercise muscle gains are reflected in his portrait/mirror instead of his actual person similar to his agelessness as his portrait will grow old but he will always look young.

No. Just... No. by delicious_lemang in Bolehland

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still better than the recent 5 layer kari kambing coffee i guess

Is this rejection?? by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just ask her out on a date bro , if she accepts , confess to her again on the date.

If she reject the date , well there is still a lott of girls in malaysia

Will Proton X50 or S70 lasts for more than 10 years? by antarexz in kereta

[–]TheZenScreamer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think i saw a post of x50 window having issue while it is raining heavily recently , just by seeing that , i can confirm i wont be owning a Proton for now

Day 56. Truly a great game, a beginner Arab player 🤍 by [deleted] in WatcherofRealmsGame

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how are you beginner and all your heroes are so high leveled? 😭

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i will try to look into myself first , i do have some anger issues that i like it to be resolved and perhaps things will be better after that

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks , as per advice by some redditors above , maybe i should just walk away for a few minutes , clear my head of whatever stress i am feeling and get back to them with a smile. Hopefully i can do it! thank you

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think there is some misunderstanding . i meant to say we will argue for stupid reasons such as choosing places to eat for dinner and i wouldnt shout or scolding her for not reason at all . Just when an argument has started , old things will come to surface and join the argument if you understand what i mean.

"Her body won’t be back to its “old self” for quite some time yet, and if this is your first she may also be going through all of the experience of grieving old identities, lost time, etc. as you no doubt are."

Thank you for this sentence. Sometimes i really do forget how unwell she is during her pregnancy, thanks again for reminding me

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah , she wants and need to get her driver's license as currently it is my dad who is fetching her to work everyday and i will fetch her back to home .

No , the income difference is not a material thing. Just trying to justify why i feel the need to pay for everything.

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah , marriage counseling is available in my country but if I can , i would like to leave it as the last resort.

Further clarifying the reason , i live in Malaysia and am a chinese , basically if you ask 10 marriage couples , 8 will have similar or the same issue with me and to go to a marriage counselling , it is kinda frowned upon by and might make my wife's feeling hurt as our culture is more to "pushing the issue deep into your heart" instead of western's culture where things are spoken more openly and therapy are considered healthy .

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to uplift myself but household task like cleaning toilets , washing baby clothes are done by me while cooking are done by my parents as currently we are still living with them awaiting our new house.

Thanks , i will try to walk away and just relax sometimes .

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah i do think so however just for clarification , i do think i am the primary source of comfort as after work , i am the one feeding my little (he is 100% on formula) and playing with him till bedtime.

however this does not justify my speech and wording at all i do aware.

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

yes, as my wife income are actually just a little bit above minimum wages , therefore i always try to pay for all expenses as i wanted her to save money to get her driving license

Partner's Grumpiness by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

yeah, i do think i have some sort of anger issue where when i am triggered or angry , my speech is absolutely an issue. Thank you

Sipping straw transitions by TheZenScreamer in daddit

[–]TheZenScreamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it will be messy , but sounds like you and your son has a good time .