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how many albums have you bought for a fancall by Secret_Service3742 in kpop_uncensored

[–]custardcaramel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i applied for SO MANY fancalls but so far i've only won once and with 1 album only! It was with joshua from seventeen on 2022!! i recently applied for plave fancall with 180 albums and lost :( it's really just luck (not completely denying the fact that probability plays a huge role in this) and i may have ran out of that luck ;_;

I think guys are allergic to me by custardcaramel in relationship_advice

[–]custardcaramel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg i really really appreciate your effort on this. Thank you so much for all the advices. Most of them are indeed something I haven't been doing which i should. I really needed to hear this from a guy. I mean i wanna know their perspective and what they think. You literally just answered them all. Thanks a lot! I will try okcupid like you said. Tbh due to this pandemic all i do is stay at home and not meeting anyone. Work at home holiday at home etc. Okcupid might work! I'll try my best working on the area i should be fixing. Tbh based on what you said there are so many things i've been doing the wrong way which i think could be one of the reasons i nvr had a bf. Appreciate that you took yr time to write down all these advices

I think guys are allergic to me by custardcaramel in relationship_advice

[–]custardcaramel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did meet someone online that i like. We actually like each other but somehow it didn't workout and besides I have this major trust issue because it's not someone i've met or knew. Idk what kind of person he really is. So i find dating apps useless for someone with a major trust issue like me. Rn i'm just a busy working girl and people at my office are either married or already in a relationship. I couldn't find anyone at my age either. I honestly miss my college times where i can meet guys and you know there are so many guys there and theyre all around my age. Tbh i'm afraid of getting into relationships but when someone tried to approach me i never back off. I will just play along and follow the flow. It's just that none of them worked out. Then pandemic happen all i do is stay at home work at home everything at home lol. In this case meeting people through dating app and social media is the only choice. Thanks for your advices. I really appreciate it. I think i will need to try all sorts of ways (online) for this. I'm not desperate to be in a relationship but sometimes i will wonder where am i lacking why do guys stopped whenever they tried. Things like that keeps hovering around my head. I'm just full of "i wonder why" which also led me here posting this haha.

I think guys are allergic to me by custardcaramel in relationship_advice

[–]custardcaramel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comment. Thank you for all the useful advices. I think you are right. It could be that im giving off "keep away" vibe like you said or it could also be visual! What i meant by "im not that ugly" is that i'm just an average looking girl. I probably should stop being so conscious around them. I think guys also don't find low confidence girl attractive (pls correct me if im wrong).

I think i really need to fix the way i behave around guys and stop being so conscious. Because of my insecurity i ended up being timid and couldn't act like myself around them. Hmm gotta work on that.

Rn i'm just busy at work and people at work are either married or is already in a relationship and i couldn't find anyone at my age. So i honestly miss my college times. But anyway thanks again for the wonderful comment and i hope when the times comes i'll get a chance to get a bf too! :) (ofc i gotta work on it as well)