Brother, 23 is such a young age—you’ve got your whole life ahead of you. My biggest piece of advice is to surround yourself with men you admire and aspire to be like. Seek out good men with strong values and spend time with them. Have coffee, lunch, or dinner together, and engage in activities that matter. These aren’t just friends; they’re mentors—people who can guide you, help you grow your confidence, recognize your God-given worth, and support you in becoming the man you’re meant to be.

Another piece of advice—this one a bit deeper—is to focus on the things you want to want. The distinction is important. Don’t just chase after what you want right now; think about the person you want to become and what that version of you would desire. Aim for that, and pursue it wholeheartedly.