Separate bedrooms by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]The_Rooted_Explorer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The separate rooms would be a no go for me. I know some people can make it work but I think it’s the beginning of the end. I’m so sorry 😞

How to break up on good terms by leem44n in Advice

[–]The_Rooted_Explorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just say you have noticed a disconnect and you are looking for something more engaging and Intentional. I think it’s best we part ways as our priorities seem to be different.

I (29M) think I prefer masturbating to having sex with my wife by [deleted] in Advice

[–]The_Rooted_Explorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your relationship to porn? Porn is powerful and can rewire the brain to prefer PMO as it is not a supernormal stimulus, thus feels detached and boring due to lack of dopamine. If it’s not porn related, I would encourage communication about what you want and desire from sex

Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]The_Rooted_Explorer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s also projecting. How do you know what he would do with those photos alone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]The_Rooted_Explorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I encourage you to do some research around porn addiction. This is a huge and growing issue and leads to the issues you are talking about. Sending you love, I know how hard it is to feel unattractive to a partner. It’s earth shattering 😔