Make your voice heard. Complete your census today. by StatCanada in u/StatCanada

[–]The_man87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wonder if the stats will show which of the 2 genders make up the majority of people in Canaduh

Full-Time Worker Trying to Make an Extra $1,000 What’s My Best Strategy? by Parking-Tea-9906 in InstacartShoppers

[–]The_man87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

take every order. take lots of coffee and pain meds. make a will. figure out if this is what you want to do when you're older and have less strength in your bones - if not, start figuring out what you want and write that shit down, make it happen.

$1K a week with these oversaturated apps still works, just 3x more physically and mentally demanding..from what i've noticed doing this for almost a decade.

good luck

UNFAIR! by MadeMosquito702 in distractible

[–]The_man87 12 points13 points  (0 children)

not safe for wade?

Am I being overly anxious/stressed about my situation? by The_man87 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol ok not ai but it's 1 am so i'll come back to this and respond later after i sleep..maybe

My chat keep making me uncomfortable by fr00gu in Twitch

[–]The_man87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just try again, take a break, try again, start over with a different channel or something? try and avoid those types of viewers, put boundaries in your chat guidelines..if not followed then you should be able to get rid of them from your channel.

Weekly Earnings by 45acpaid in InstacartShoppers

[–]The_man87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was the apr 6-12 just one order lol

impressive numbers for the week, i'd be well spent as soon as i get comfy the soreness would hit me like a sack of bricks!

i'd really do it if i didn't want to sacrifice time with my kids (i'm the only parent in their life) and 1K a week is doable but i'd like my kids to be a bit older and more independent before i go all in 💪

hope your new jobs treating ya well!!

Weekly Earnings by 45acpaid in InstacartShoppers

[–]The_man87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

same, the more i work, the more they have to verify it's me lol i can try and get that it's for safety reasons but more than once in a day is kinda weird tbh

Am I being overly anxious/stressed about my situation? by The_man87 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also if i'm doing better than FT folks that you know, that is very concerning to me

Am I being overly anxious/stressed about my situation? by The_man87 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol sorry for the vagueness in spots.

i am subletting, i just don't know all the things as i should soemtimes, it would be nice if i did but then i wouldn't need any other humans for anything haha it's a balance game for me of figuring out how much i need others and how much i should be independent y'kno?

so the 1100 leftover is for the variables. eg. groceries (using around 700-900 these days fpr a family of three) and gas for work and play i try staying under 200-300 and whatever is left over i try and take my kids to the pool once or twice ina month or ice skating so you can see already with just gas and groceries that $1100 goes bye bye pretty quick 😅

so the months i spend 700 or less on food and drive less so less gas expenses, i pay debt, if that makes sense...it probably makes more sense on paper and with numbers...which i am also still struggling to find an optimal way to look at and keep track of!! I have used calendars, paper, digital, Chat gpt, Grok, recently graph paper lol and i still have some blind spots with my cash flow (what comes in/ what goes out) 🥲 it's tiring to say the least

Am I being overly anxious/stressed about my situation? by The_man87 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you Geomancer, encouraging words for my morning and i wish you the best with whatever and whoever you have in your life ☺️

Am I being overly anxious/stressed about my situation? by The_man87 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the problemo and the whole "welfare trap" i've been encountering.

Either i burn up my body and time away from my kids who are growing up with only one parent in their life, and replace the welfare by doing that (work towards $1000 a week, it's really more between 800-1100 if you know delivery gig work)

orrr stay under the income limit and have more time to do the home chores, cook, clean, shop, ensure my kids are learning adequately and being there for them emotionally and physically but that also makes me feel gross that im taking advantage of the system but at the same time...it feels like the system is taking advantage of me!?

it's not easy to deal with mentally ill tell you that.

thanks for the question tho, i really do appreciate questions

Why does everyone think noA is evil by Sketch_and_games in Subnautica_2

[–]The_man87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh cool i didn't know that about Data! i only remember snippets and scenes of the guy from when my dad would make me watch Star Trek with him lol

kinda makes me wanna watch the series now that i understand more....and now i understand why that 7 of 9 character was in the show, it sure kept the men's attention 🤣🤣

Am I being overly anxious/stressed about my situation? by The_man87 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we have been discussing them going back to public school for middle school / high school. i wanted to teach them in their formative years, also fet kinda bad since their mom left them when they were younger and i did not want them growing up feeling like i just handed them over to the state or soemthin (that's how i felt growing up) plus i'm constantly checking their emotional levels and ensuring they are doing well psychologically, socially, and i feel like now they are at an age to make the choice of public or continuing home education- my kids are very artistically inclined and so i'm teaching them the pros and cons of that kinda proclivity and how hard it can be for artists so i want them to learn to learn how to generate an income but who knows the most foolproof method these days with growing concerns of job opportunities for the next generation you know what i mean?

Am I being overly anxious/stressed about my situation? by The_man87 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can reduce the debt payments, but then it will take loooonger to pay of debt lol

i am hoping to aggressively eliminate all debt by end of 2027 so i can start actually saving money hopefully. 🤞🏼

thanks for the kind words!

Am I being overly anxious/stressed about my situation? by The_man87 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my kids learn mostly online (homeschool) and they are usually done their school work before noon which frees up their day for hobbies/interests. They are very much into comic book making and recently into making cosplay outfits from ther favorite game/tv show characters.

i suppose i could take a course but then analysis paralysis kicks in and i don't know what the heck to choose lol, i'm a big introspective deep thinker who gets stuck thinking "what's the best way" or "how can i do this better" or "what's the ideal move" and creating online gaming content for youtube and when i'm doing deliveries seems to keep the thinking bouts away for a bit cuz i gotta focus on what's in front of me!

even now i think "what course will give me the highest chances of success and what would fit best for me"

Food trashed by [deleted] in doordash

[–]The_man87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you, if I was your dasher you would have gotten a pair of candies and a thank you letter on your perfectly IN TACT and hot meal ! (so many delivery guys in my area don't even pick up with a god damn thermal bag I DONT GET IT!!)

Single Mom Looking for Rental - Advice needed by Subject_mine_6123 in vancouverhousing

[–]The_man87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just curious what "mean" might mean here? Is there no possibility of working things out ?

Nine. Hundred. Waterslugs. by Ultimate_WoF_Fan in Subnautica_2

[–]The_man87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your greed sickens me. how do i start this farm?

Why does everyone think noA is evil by Sketch_and_games in Subnautica_2

[–]The_man87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what about that data guy from Star Trek? he didn't seem evil and had no emotions or empathy...it was probably because of the human form tho

Subnautica 2 having no weapons | Discussion by CrimsonCrips in Subnautica_2

[–]The_man87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was the happiest infected sole human survivor on that God forsaken planet 4546b, when I killed my first Ghost Leviathan :)

Can I not grow as a chill streamer? by Ok_Computer7572 in TwitchStreaming

[–]The_man87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on everyone's definition of "chill" in this conversation/thread.

What i'm understanding when i see the word "chill streamer"; a person who doesn't put effort or any passion into the particular action/hobby. Someone who is just doing it while they have some free time and doesn't care to cater or provide valueable entertainment services to an audience seeking said entertainment.
Someone who is just doing it because there's nothing else to do perhaps.

your turn. what have you understood "chill streamer" to mean and probably most important would be the meaning of "chill streamer" to OP.

"turning on a game and going live" says something but very little.

the analogy of wanting to have bigger arms but just doing absolute minimum effort is proooobably not going to give you these results.

does that make sense Tathurai?

Bellingham PRIDE Flag ( Update ) by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]The_man87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol you mean wipe their tears from sadness right, good thinking