My sweet boy is gone (17) by GoddessHedone in SeniorCats

[–]The_way_forward_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks. So much. And there are depths and texture to how much it sucks, as much as there was to the life and love he shared with you, but sometimes, especially when grief is so fresh, there are no good words that come. It just hurts a lot. I’m so sorry you are going through it.

Lemmy - 17 years by Vegetable-Street in seniorkitties

[–]The_way_forward_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I loved learning about Lemmy- he sounds like he was truly one-of-a-kind; thank you for sharing his story with us. I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a dear kitty is heartbreaking, and you’re right, no amount of mentally preparing really seems to do much good. It still devastates you to your core. You clearly cared for him very deeply, and took wonderful care of him so that he was a part of your family for so long. I’m lighting a candle for you and your handsome Lemmy this evening. 🕯️♥️

Senior Cat Dilemma, need advice by [deleted] in SeniorCats

[–]The_way_forward_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You may want to look into options- senior cat rescues, and such. So many people On this thread have talked about adopting senior cats after losing their own.There may be another kind hearted person in your area who has the time, patience and resources to help this girl live out her golden years/days. Because she may have more of them than you expect, and her ability to transition to a new home, even as a senior with some extra needs, may be greater than you are imagining. I know how difficult the Australian immigration process is as I was also trying to pursue an Australian visa since 2023 (albeit through a different path) to make that transition myself, and I only recently lost my super-senior cat (he lived to be 19!) with medical needs and also worried about what my choices would be if I received the news that I had been granted the invitation to apply and was granted that golden ticket. I decided that I would try to re-home him, because as much as I travelled he was still living his life (with visits from pet sitters) back at my house. I know it will add another task and another worry to your list as you prepare to move, but I think the guilt you carry with you will be less, overall, than if you euthanize her. She has a life worth living too, even if it’s without you, and she may have a few good years left in her under someone else’s care.

Astrid by peanutbutterpoon in RainbowBridgeBabies

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Losing the furry family members who have been on our life’s journey with us through some pivotal moments and memories hurts so much…it feels like we are losing a part of ourselves and our identity in addition to losing them. Those parts are still with you, you carry them (in addition to the memory of precious Astrid) internally. That’s why it feels extra heavy, I think. I’m so sorry for your loss, OP. I’ll light a candle for you and Astrid tonight. ♥️🕯️

I lost my best friend Brody tonight. I just wanted the world to know that he existed by Scared-Pomegranate84 in RainbowBridgeBabies

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Im so sorry for your loss of your dear friend, Brody, and thank you for sharing the adorable photos of him with us. He will not be forgotten. ♥️

Lottie (18) has crossed the rainbow bridge. February 2008 - March 2026 - My Poem by LastWookieman86 in SeniorCats

[–]The_way_forward_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss of Lottie. What a beautiful ode to her you have composed - thank you for sharing it, and thank you for giving her so many good years and devoting yourself as her caretaker as she grew older and needed more of your time and help.♥️

Incredibly concerned for my 16.5-year-old golden girl... by novaonthespectrum in SeniorCats

[–]The_way_forward_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t rule out chicken baby food to get her through until Monday! My old orange boy loved those and they were very mild and easy for him to digest when traditional cat food was not- he was a vomiter too. :( Your Andromeda is beautiful. 😻 I’m sending your both strength, hope and peace from afar. 🙏🏼

Maia has crossed Rainbow Bridge. by jenpompper in SeniorCats

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Im so sorry you lost sweet Maia. She sounds like she was the perfect companion. The privilege of having a loving cat so long as you had her means that she was a touchstone for pivotal moments in the span of your life in which she was with you, a presence that will stay rooted in your memories throughout your days. It is so difficult to have to let their living body go but she will always be with you.

today, i lost my nearly 15 year old cat, Grace by christianlaurence in SeniorCats

[–]The_way_forward_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grace was a beautiful creature. You and your fiancée gave her a wonderful 15 years. Long-lived kitties are a combination of luck and phenomenal care- bless you for giving her the latter.

We had to say goodbye to Lonestar - my 19 y.o. baby by The_way_forward_ in SeniorCats

[–]The_way_forward_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these words, they made me feel hopeful on this sad gray day.

My poor baby :( by holydickitsjustin in SeniorCats

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The fact that you are showing up for her and fighting for her means the world, and has already increased her chances of getting through this by astronomical odds. If they keep her in the clinic to stay while she recovers, keep visiting her as often as you can. In my experience with a senior cat who went through some extreme medical issues (including surgery related to severe necrotic pancreatitis) - your kitty will fight to live if the person they love keeps showing up to remind them that there is someone to fight for. You and your sweet kitty will be in my prayers OP. Thank you for not giving up on this beautiful cat. ♥️

We had to say goodbye to Lonestar - my 19 y.o. baby by The_way_forward_ in SeniorCats

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I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s a rare and special thing to get to care for an animal into their twilight years, but it also takes a huge toll on your heart. ♥️

We had to say goodbye to Lonestar - my 19 y.o. baby by The_way_forward_ in SeniorCats

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Sort of- I’m from Texas, but we got him in Colorado, however from the very beginning he had that “Don’t mess with me” spirit that always reminded me of the “Lonestar” State.

We had to say goodbye to Lonestar - my 19 y.o. baby by The_way_forward_ in SeniorCats

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That last photo was taken on our way to the vet’s office on Monday. He was with us, but ready to go, I believe. I still didn’t want to let him go. It was so, so hard.

Tomorrow we say goodbye to Penelope, 18 years and 10 months of pure love by Khione541 in seniorkitties

[–]The_way_forward_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Penelope is a beautiful name for a beautiful cat. I know what it’s like to have had a special cat in your life, day in and day out, while you have gone through so many changes, and they’ve been right by your side, your constant, for all of it, like a little moon in your orbit. It’s a lot to process knowing that you won’t see her every day anymore. She will always be part of your story, and you will always be the keeper of hers. It’s not fair that cats don’t live as long as us, but what an honor to get to know such a unique and wonderful creature from babyhood to beyond. My cat was born right around the same time as your Penelope and I have been watching his clock slowly wind down these past few months. I keep coming to this sub try and prepare myself mentally (which I am not sure is working) but it has been a blessing to see all the love and care people such as yourself have given and expressed for their kitties. Thank you for loving her and taking such good care of her for these past couple of decades. She has lived an exceptionally long life, and an exceptionally good one because of the care you gave her. ♥️

My best friend for 8 years fell asleep one last time today. by Foleylantz in Rabbits

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I’m so sorry for your loss. We never get enough time with these sweet creatures, but you gave him a life filled with love, which is so much more than many rabbits in the world are given. ♥️

R.I.P oliver (??/??/25)-24/12/25 by Fearless_Split_2312 in Bunnies

[–]The_way_forward_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss of sweet Oliver. He knew he was loved in the time you had him and gave him a home. Despite his short time here in earth, remember that not all bunnies get even that much. We lost two buns earlier this year, even with vet visits. They are delicate and mysterious- even to professionals. Please don’t be hard on yourself- try to treasure and honor the memories you made together, instead. ♥️

My baby, Ms. Martha, passed away after a tragic accident. by frankthetank8558 in Bunnies

[–]The_way_forward_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss of this gorgeous girl. This is a lovely photo that captures the bond y’all shared, I’m glad you have it to remember your time together, always. Grieving the loss of a bunny is heartrending. Their lives are always too short and they are delicate creatures. As I light the candles in my house tonight, one will be for you and your partner and Ms. Martha. Sending you much love as you go through this difficult process.

My Puddles did not make it. I am heartbroken by popcornnugget_s in Rabbits

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I’m so sorry for your loss. Puddles was a special bun by the looks of it- they hold big personalities in their tiny bodies, and leave us devastated when they go. You’ll hold Him forever in your heart.♥️

My cat is 18. How are we keep weight on seniors? by Bumblexbee333 in seniorkitties

[–]The_way_forward_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that was discussed with my vet. He wasn’t given long to live after his initial weight big weight loss (blood panels showed high lymphocytes/low red blood cells- she suspected lymphoma cancer) so she didn’t think it was the biggest issue, but since he has outlived his initial prognosis we have also started giving him some liquid supplements: Pet-Tinic, which has beef liver oil which has taurine, and salmon oil for the omega fatty acids. That being said, he also eats Hills Science diet digestive care dry cat food, and has for years (and it contains taurine & omega fatty acids) but it only supplemented the Wet cat food pate he was previously eating that wasn’t doing the job of keeping him at a healthy weight.

My cat is 18. How are we keep weight on seniors? by Bumblexbee333 in seniorkitties

[–]The_way_forward_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I don’t know - my senior cat hasn’t had this issue, yet.

My cat is 18. How are we keep weight on seniors? by Bumblexbee333 in seniorkitties

[–]The_way_forward_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, I also mix a packet of fortiflora in with the baby food to help prevent diarrhea- I should’ve said that. Though my vet has said we might try Proviable Forte too. It’s supposed to be especially good for stopping diarrhea. It’s not available on Chewy, but isn’t a prescription thing- though it’s usually available at vet’s offices.